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writes: Is Oral sex considered losing your virginity?Me and my Boyfriend have been together for a few years and still haven't done it. I want to save my virginity for my husband on my wedding night rather it ends up being the guy I'm with or not. I love my bf and we really enjoy pleasing each other and doing romantic things to get close to each other, but how close is too close? I don't want to have oral sex and then feel like I've givin up something that was meant to be saved. I'm no angel and haven't been completely pure, but I still have a lot of things to give and want to give a lot of special things when I'm married but at the same time I want to enjoy my relationship with my guy and experience some nice things. Any advice would be soooooo -great! Also any advice on oral sex itself would really help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): I strongly belive in God. For my 15th birthday, I got a purity ring, this not meaning that I have commited to God that I will remain pure until my wedding day.
I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, and I love him like you wouldn't belive. Sometimes it seems EXTREMLY hard to wait. I want to go futher so bad, but yet, there is that part of me that just won't let me.
My boyfriend asked me ahwile back if I felt that Oral was sex.. and I said yes. So we have decided to wait. It is EXTREMLY hard, but I know that if I try I can do it.. so we just keep ourselves "entertained" by foreplay.. such as him fingering me and extreme make out sessions... you know how that goes.
I think you can do it if you set your mind to it, and I wish you the best of luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): My fiancee had given oral before and I don't consider her a virgin, though she does. It depends on who you ask. Your husband in the future might feel one way or another, but I would say don't take at face value the advice of people who say "oral is def not a loss of virginity."
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): I'm glad there's still women strong enough out there to go for what they believe in rather than what things all around us today show us what we SHOULD do.
i think it's good your waiting for a special someone (:
best of luck.
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reader, Dr Pete  + ♥, writes (6 February 2007):
 Having oral sex would not be considered loosing your virginity.
I think oral sex is very intimate, in some ways it is more intimate than having pentrative sex.
I think it is a choice you have to make, but personally, I think if you are saving yourself to marriage then you might as well save yourself oral-sex wise too. You mention purity, virginity is also associated with purity and innocent and I think oral sex certain puts you on that other line between innocent and ... not-so-innocent. I guess it is something you will know best. It's very sweet you want to save your virginity for your future husband. I guess you should try and imagine being with him and having already had oral sex and then being with him and not having had oral sex. It's good you are looking to the future rather than living in the now. All the best :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): high praise for you miss,its nice to see there are still young women these days that want to save themselves for the right man than just loosing it for the sake of it.oral sex isnt loosing your virgininty no, but its still a very intimate act between two people so make sure you love him first, secondly you can still contract some deseases through oral so be carefull.
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