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I like her, so should I tell her how special she is to me?
Q. I really like a girl with me in school. I started to get to know her and liked her so became more interested and started talking more often. We were once talking and i dont know how i told her i liked her and wanted to know how she felt and she made ...
A. 30 January 2007: No i don't think sending her a valentines card will seem like your putting pressure on her at all,not if you send a card 'TO SOMEONE SPECIAL ON VALENTINES DAY'its a just a way of letting someone how you feel and what they mean to you..
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Gf acts so childish and it annoys me! What should I do?
Q. In the past few months, my girlfriend has just got younger and more childish. To begin with she was a lot more mature almost as if too get me where she wanted me The main problems is she moans when people say she is 16 years old, as she thnks she...
A. 30 January 2007: I might be wrong seeing as you didnt put your age im thinking your maybe older than your g/f because normally guys take longer than girls to mature,and its normally the girls calling the guys immature and childish,and your saying she only acted more ... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of bum hair?
Q. Hi I have a question. I need to know how to get rid of bum hair. It might sound stupid but I don't know how to remove it. Could someone help me please? ...
A. 30 January 2007: Hmmm,depends on where you have bum hair are you talking on your cheeks or inbetween,girls/women don't normally get it on thier cheeks but if you do i'd defenetly recomend waxing but for inbetween use a razor.. :D xLEAHx... (read in full...)
My friend asked the guy I like out and my ex's friend asked me out! I don't know what to do.
Q. the guy i love said he kind of liked me and then said if he got to know me a little better he could start to love me and i was really happy. then he asked me how i want him to get to know me right after he said that. i thought in my head it sounds ...
A. 30 January 2007: Hunny,
This guy alex who said he'd like to get to know you better,couldn't of wanted you that much to get together with your friend, my advise would be to forget him because
if he was ever interested in you he wouldnt have chose your friend o... (read in full...)
I like her, so should I tell her how special she is to me?
Q. I really like a girl with me in school. I started to get to know her and liked her so became more interested and started talking more often. We were once talking and i dont know how i told her i liked her and wanted to know how she felt and she made ...
A. 28 January 2007: Yes i think you should tell her just that,at the end of the day you want to know where you stand with this girl and what your chances are with her,you say she's become more closer towards you, so maybe her feelings have become stronger for you and ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to arrange a second date with someone you like?
Q. i went on date with this girl i met once before. all went well. i really wanna see her again soon but when is the right time to phone or arrange date? also when is it right to tell her i love her? how do i know if she does? any signs to pick up?...
A. 28 January 2007: There's no time limit on arranging a second date if all went well on the first one and you really got on and liked eachother then give her a call now..As for telling her you love her i think you should ease up on that..firstly you have only had a ... (read in full...)
She has a lot on her plate and we broke up! I still want her-should I keep contacting her?
Q. I'm very very sad and heartbroken. My girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago. She said her reasons were that she couldn't handle the stress of the arguments we have in our relationship because she has alot on her plate right now. She's grievei...
A. 28 January 2007: I seriously think you should give her space the poor girl has had it rough and i can understand why she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now becaise she can't cope with one ,some ppl just want to be left alone to grieve,she maybe also ... (read in full...)
Sometimes, I feel nothing when I kiss my bofriend. What could be missing?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much; he’s so caring, loving and sweet. I really don’t know what else more I can ask for. However, some times when I kiss him I not sure that I feel any thing why is that? What could be missing? ...
A. 28 January 2007: It all depends on what way you mean by kissing him for an example if your kissing passionately getting in the mood for some loving i.e sex and feel nothing, in other words your not getting turned on,it could be down to a number of things,maybe you ... (read in full...)
My gf has a medical condition and I am finding it tough to cope. What should I do?
Q. my girlfriend has got M.E. (Myalgic Encephalopathy) and Fibromyalgia. I love her to pieces but recently, things have started to go downhill. i respect that she needs her time and her space but im finding this all quite hard to cope with now. at the ...
A. 28 January 2007: It sounds to me as if your g/f needs counciling if this medical condition is depressing her,i can understand what its like and what strain its putting on your relationship because of this condition she's proberly thinking lifes not worth living and ... (read in full...)
How can I fix my marriage?
Q. My marriage of 8 years has gone to crap. My great wife said that she can't take anymore and wants me out. We have two kids that i love very much. I am the cause of this whole mess and will do anything to fix it. Have going to doctor and ...
A. 28 January 2007: Talk to your wife and see whether she really wants your marriage to work,we all say mean things to each other and all have our ups and downs you really need to know whats happend in your relationship and why she feels this way, but maybe deep down ... (read in full...)
Do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?
Q. Hi there...do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?...
A. 28 January 2007: There's no problem there hun, 'AGE IS JUST A NUMBER' if you both share the same interests and get along, then why shouldn't it work..GO FOR IT! and good luck
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I need a lot of affection..he doesn't. How do we work this out?
Q. My partner is 27 and i'm 21. Is it wrong to feel wanted? When i'm with my partner i want to be held and kissed and shown that i'm wanted but instead i always have to make the first move asking him to hold me or kiss me. i know this sounds crazy ...
A. 28 January 2007: No your not wrong to feel wanted i can totally relate to this,i know just how you feel when all you want is love and affection and you give but never recieve..iv had it for years and yes it does wear you down and it does come to a point where you ... (read in full...)
We have problems with petty arguing.What should I do to stop all this?
Q. ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 11 months. we've been arguing alot lately and she says she isnt happy. we talked about our problems last friday and from then untill last wednesday(3 days ago), everything had been going ...
A. 28 January 2007: I think you need to sort out what these silly things are that cause you to argue and when you do find your selfs digging at eachother one of you should turn around and say 'OK STOP' it seems to me like although you love eachother these little ... (read in full...)
It's just sex and he hides his feelings! How can I tell if this relationship is right for me?
Q. how can tell if this relationship is right for u right now its just sex here and there thats how we were when we were kids 5 years ago i feel like ive gone back 4 steps. he hides his feelings and i dont know where i stand anymore what to do. i t...
A. 28 January 2007: The only way to find out is to ask him..try asking him whether its only sex he wants from you or whether he wants a proper relationship and is to affraid to say,thing is if his a type of guy who doesn't really show his feelings or don't tell you ... (read in full...)
Why do I get so wet down there, when I am just around my bf?
Q. Hi guys I have a bit of a personal problem which I hope you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend now for about four months and I absolutely love him to bits. However for the last month or so I seem to have a bit of a problem. Every ...
A. 28 January 2007: Do you find your self having sexual thoughts about him when with him or just looking at him and hearing him really turns you on? if yes then thats why your getting so wet..this guy really does it for you..some girls /women are just naturally wet and ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm thinking of meeting up with this guy online who promises to give me 'wild sex.' Is this a good idea, or not?
Q. Dear Cupid- Here is the problem: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him very much, but our sex life is a little boring. We usually have sex in the bedroom in the same position. I'm very sexual and I like to try new things in ...
A. 27 January 2007: Theres one thing you should know about some of these guys online,to say there'l give you the best sex ever, and iv got a big manhood is just a way of getting into your pants,guys brag,so don't read too much into it and believe this guy on the ... (read in full...)
It hurts everytime I have sex. Why?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm 19 years old and when me and my boyfriend have sex, it really hurts me. I am sore when he enters me and when we're actually having intercourse. Afterwards i am really sore aswell. I have had a test for chlamydia and that came ba...
A. 27 January 2007: Well seing as you have had tests and they have come back alright it may be down to lubrication prehaps when you have sex your not wet enough therefor its drying you out and making you sore or maybe your boyfriend is penetrating too hard especialy if ... (read in full...)
Update: How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend? I need ideas for Vibrators now!
Q. First of all Id like to say thank to to everyone who answered a recent question i posted (How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend)It really helped!! The two of us talked about it and hes totally ok with it..and probably cant ...
A. 27 January 2007: Hi there,
You say you an your b/f want to go to a sex shop together to pick something out..personally i would choose ann summers as there are a wide variety of sex toys in the shop which are on display and the staff are really helpfull the ... (read in full...)
We get on great but he wants no kids and marriage in his future! Should I let him go?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 17 months now and its going great. Apart from that my boyfriend has made it perfectly clear that he doesnt want to marry me or have any children. I am 26 years old and he is 37. He's ...
A. 27 January 2007: Hi there,
Your right why would you wanna waste your life with someone who cant give you what you want,i dont think he will change his mind as he has been there and done that, been married and had a child,im sorry to say but these things happ... (read in full...)
I give my bf sex when he's in the mood but when I'm in the mood I get nothing. I'm tired of his excuses! What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a good relationship....apart from the sex. When we are having it it is fine but its only when he's in the mood. The relationship has always been like this and we can go for weeks without having sex at all. If I try to make ...
A. 22 January 2007: Hi hun, yes i think mention this to him about looking up adult and chat sites,and put it to him that no wonder his not giving you what you need if his looking up these sites ..seriously if i was in your situation and when ever he wanted sex i would ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my internet guy and I am jealous of his friendship with other girls. What do I do?
Q. I'm friends with this guy over the net and kinda has fallen for him by accident and I'm jealous of his friendship with this other girl he talks to, I really don't want to be jealous and just ignore the feelings I have for him. Plus I'm quite ...
A. 12 December 2006: Hi there,
firstly you need to know whether this guy feels the same way about you and whether there's any future in this online relationship, or is it just friendship,i know its very easy to fall for someone online but if you know there's no futu... (read in full...)
My relationship seems totally one-sided. What can I do?
Q. I am 19 (turning 20 in 2months) and I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2yrs now. He was the first guy I had a sexual relationship with and I really love him. But for the past 6 months all we've been doing is arguing, well i'm usually...
A. 12 December 2006: I have also been in a relationship like this,and to a point still am,so i do feel for you,i can totally see where your coming from, its not very nice being the person to always give and to get nothing in return,its your caring and kind nature that ... (read in full...)
Since becoming pregnant, my wife seems withdrawn. Any advice?
Q. hi there, Me and my fiance' are expecting a baby! This is absolutely an amazing feeling for me and I cant wait! It seems like me and her are drifting apart though and that she is not comfortable with the new life we are about to start. She is in...
A. 15 November 2006: Hi Anon,
I can understand how excited you are,and your partner too, but she proberly has alot of fears thats why she's not feeling it like you are,im very sure it most proberly is to do with her pregnancy ..you need to understand that for ... (read in full...)
I sent him a kinky text and picture - and he hasn't called me back!
Q. I sent a guy i have been seeing a kinky text and picture as he hadn't called in a while and been away for a few weeks, he really liked it but still hasn't called me and this was last night, perhaps he isn't used to this or he is shy in this area. ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hi Anon,
Maybe you should ask him again what he thought of your picture or whether he was offended by it..explain how bad you feel not knowing whether it was the right thing to do or not..and that you are a bit worried that you may of scar... (read in full...)
He bought my best mate a bday card and didn't get me anything! He makes me feel small! Help!
Q. my boyfrend bought my best mate a bday card and didnt get me n e ting 4 my bday cz he sed he was skint! i just feel reli upset nd i dont knw if i shuld say n e ting! nd he always says tings like hw is ex or these gals are always askin him 2 go out ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hi Anon,
sounds like he doesn't have much respect for you, play him at his own game ..talk about guys liking you and asking you out ..and see how he reacts if he don't bat an eyelid and seem like he don't give a damn then im afraid he cant... (read in full...)
We are friends but had sex last weekend! Can our friendship survive this?
Q. i have been friends with a boy for two years last weekend we got drunk i ended up stayin at his house and we had sex. can our relationship go back to the way it was?...
A. 11 November 2006: Hi Anon,
I should see no reason why not,these things can happen if you had sex coz you were drunk and you lost control of yourselfs, and then the next morning regreted what you both had done then my advise would be to talk to eachother see ... (read in full...)
We aren't compatible..we have different goals in life..so why do I wnat him so bad?
Q. I recently ended a two year relationship. I few weeks ago, I slept with one of my ex's friends. I know that this man and myself are not that compatible. I can't figure out why I want him so much when we clearly are not a very good match. We have ...
A. 11 November 2006: Hi Anon,
There's a saying 'OPPOSITES ATTRACT' there's alot of ppl out there who are attracted to the opposite sex who have totally nothing in common with eachother what so ever,but they have this strange connection to that certain pers... (read in full...)
I thought our first meeting was a bit awkward but it went well..he doesn't think so! So what should I do, now?
Q. Been talking to this guy online. We are both 14. We met today at the shops there were a few akward quiet moments but i think it went ok for a first meeting. However when i spoke to him after online i said was 2day ok? and he said we dont get on very ...
A. 11 November 2006: Hi Kat,
Maybe he seemed to have expected more for a first date rather then just talking and getting to know each other better, like actually going somewhere like the cinema or going for something to eat ,which he should have planned when you ... (read in full...)
Do you think he fancies me?
Q. hey rite .. i totally fancy this lad who i see everyday at college. im sure he knows i like him because like a girl does has a little look and he just stares back. im not kidding even my friends have said hes always looking at me. my friends have ...
A. 8 November 2006: Hi Anon,
With some guys it makes no difference at all whether they have a girlfriend or not some still flirt and txt other girls..so you really need to know whether he has one or not before it goes any further and you get hurt,when you next... (read in full...)
After an argument he ended it, then we got back together - and now he's acting funny! Help!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend now, on and off for 13 months, but recently things have been even worse. These past few days have been especially bad. We had a major argument two nights ago something insignificant and he just blew his top, and ended it ...
A. 8 November 2006: Hi Anon,
First you need to find the root to your arguments and whats causing them..when you said he ended the relationship and then you got back together and he was offish with you ,sounds like the argument you had before whatever it was ... (read in full...)
She used to be really affectionate, but not so much anymore, what can I do?
Q. How do I get answers out of her? We used to call and text all the time, but recently she said it was annoying when I did that, so I stopped. She used to be extremely affectionate all the time, in public, private, wherever. She is still affectionate, ...
A. 8 November 2006: The problem is if a persons not an affectionate person then you can't really change them,when we first start a relationship we are touchy feely and affectionate to each other but with some people it does'nt always last you mostly always get one ... (read in full...)
I feel my girlfriend is stressed out from college and work and only wants to lay around, what can I do about this?
Q. I have a slight problem. My girlfriend has not long got a job which means she has too work evenings three times a week sometimes four times per week if not on the weekend. The thing is she has college full time and does not have a day off. She is at ...
A. 8 November 2006: Hi Anon,
This is doing her no good working all these hours plus going to college too,if she's feeling lifeless all the time and she carrys on the rate she's going she could end up collapsing..does she really need to work all these hour... (read in full...)
Do guys like hairy or smooth women better?
Q. This is a extremley embarrassing question but which do guys prefere a hairy woman or a smooth woman and i dont mean legs or arm hair i mean on the vagina.Has i am still a virgin i am 15 years old and i am worried just incase the guy i loose it to ...
A. 8 November 2006: Hi Anon,
Personally i don't like hairy and i don't care what a guy thinks..i do it for me because i know that its more hygenic and feels better..but it all depends on the individual..some guys like pubic hair down on girls, some guys don'... (read in full...)
I want more sex than him! What is the best solution to fixing this?
Q. What is the best solution when one partner wants more sex than the other? My bf is still interested in sex and when we do have it we both enjoy it, but these days he is only interested once a week. I on the other hand feel like it about three times ...
A. 8 November 2006: Hi Anon,
Alot of couples are in this situation,its great if you both have the same sex drive as the other..but in most cases they don't..you can't really force someone to have sex when they don't want to..If your b/friend works then mayb... (read in full...)
He's addicted to granny/golden showers porn! Should I stay with him or leave?
Q. Hey, Im pregnant, and quite happy with our relationship, but theres always something nagging in the back of my mind. My boyfriend never had a g/f before me, so he has always relied on porn. I can accept porn to an extent, i even like a bit of a ...
A. 7 November 2006: Hi Anon,
When i was reading your post..and you mentioned your his first girlfriend ,i thought ah maybe he still looks at porn for experience as some guys do, alot of guys pick up tips from watching porn..but then you mentioned him watc... (read in full...)
I can't get over my father passing away - Please help!
Q. my dad was my best friend, but he passed away 2 years ago, and i cant get over it. i mean i really cant! please help!...
A. 7 November 2006: I really know what your going through, 9 yrs ago i lost my mum,you think at the time how am i going to get along and live without them,especially when your really close to a parent..but it does get easier in time believe me,your never forget your ... (read in full...)
Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?
Q. I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, ...
A. 31 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Im sorry to say but i think you should just get over this guy and move on with your life, if he did cheat on you then who's to say that if he got back with you he'd do it again..i think your best bet is to just forget him seei... (read in full...)
I think he may still like me! What are the signs that a lad likes you?
Q. 3 years ago a lad asked me out i did like him then as well but just felt to young to beb going out with some one at that age.Anyway ever since then i started falling in love with him evan my friends said ask him out he might still like you.I have ...
A. 31 October 2006: Hi Anon,
This guy proberly still fancies you ..if he fancied you 3 years ago then he proberly still does,you say he keeps looking at you and still gives you the impression that he still likes you..but he most proberly won't approach you beca... (read in full...)
If he is quiet or distant I blame myself
Q. Hi there, I have a good relationship with one of my male friends to the point that I love him. We get on great have lots of fun (not intimate) but at the moment he is happy being single and doesnt want a relationship. We talked and agreed that we ...
A. 31 October 2006: Hi Anon,
He most proberly means what he says when saying his fed up with work ..like everyone things in life get us down and prehaps his still not really over his ex,but doesn't want to burden you with his problems..and maybe seeing as you ... (read in full...)
I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend
Q. hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...
A. 31 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Mostly what we dream about reflects on whats on our minds,seems like this thing with your b/friend txtin other girls is still playing on your mind and your paranoid in thinking that he maybe in contact with your ex mate..and i can'... (read in full...)
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