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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:He denied me to other women online that he doesn't have a gf. I am dating this guy online I am from another continent, he is in USA, we have been talking for more than a yr, we're in love but we have not met yet. He has been telling me to meet me but always postponing . Recently this girl IMed me telling me my online bf is a player, she sent me emails of my online bf to her, and their chats, she said GOD to curse her if she made up all emails, she asked if he has a gf he said no and he cannot fall in love online just infatuation but he has told me he loves me online and he cannot fall in love with someone in my religion but he said he might convert, he said negative things about my religion, my religion does not allow marrying outside, I hope he will convert, no decision yet whether yes or no but he said maybe he will and we'll talk about it when we meet in person. He said maybe ppl who say I love you online are desperate and maybe not picky after all and he said he has not met his soulmate and is still looking but we have been dating for more than a year, and the emails we're just recently, the girl printed screen of his emails to her in facebook. What do you think? Is he really a player?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Sounds like a big time player. Sorry, but you should break it off with him, he has nothing to offer you. First off he is flirting with other women and pretending to be single, so he's not committed to you. Second, he doesnt want to meet you. Third, he doesnt seem all that interested in converting (plus talking negatively about your religion). So what do you get out of this relationship? He doesnt sound sincere. One year into it he should know how he feels about you, but to you he says he loves you and to another he says he can't love anyone online.
I am happy for you that that girl sent you the proof of what he has talked to her about. Now you can see him for who he really is and get out of this relationship.
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