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writes:I’ve been having some issues with my boyfriend of nearly four years and so has my friend..I tell her most things but recently she doesn’t tell me much at all. She goes on like her relationship is so perfect now. He cheated on her, she forgave him. He said he didn’t want to lose her blahblah. He manhandled her afterwards, she forgave him. He said the same thing.I’m always there to listen and i hold my tounge because I know they’re going to get back together etc etc. They’ve been together for a yearBut when it comes to my problems, she just zones out and doesn’t even pretend to listen. Doesn’t even seem to care. At first, she only called me when she knew I was having problems with my bf. She just popped up and tried to make him look as bad as her boyfriend and now she just says “you guys aren’t working out, I can’t even see a spark anymore. It’s like you’re wasting each others time. When her and her man have issues, she calls me to go out or whatever. (he keeps dumping her) But then when they’re fine. She’s not there. (Personally, I don’t think he’s good enough for her but whatever)Also, she has started this course. Before then she was just like me. Stayed at home and didn’t know what to do with her life, waking up in the eveing etc I missed a job interview that I told her about because my boyfriend did something silly and isank into a depression which I’m more or less still in. This is what she said when she’s had so many opps and turned them down cos of her man“omg, you let that keep you at home?! What a oppurtunity down the drain, you shouldn’t have missed it”Yes, it seems like she has my best interest but she’s infact rubbing it in. Theshe’s going on like she’s now better than me or has her head in the game.That same afternoon I had a call from a jewellery store I applied to offering me an interview, I told her and . She seemed jealous” let’s hope you wake up then and not let this go to waste like the last one”Is she is being very bitchy or is it me? There are other examples but I only remember these …
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Ok yes it sounds to me like she is being a little bit bitchy. There could be many reasons for this though, maybe something happened between the both of you and its upset her but you are completely clueless to you. Maybe she is just angry at you for turning a good oppertunity down over the head of your boyfriend. However she could be a bit more sensitive about it. Anyway the best thing to do in a friendship no matter what is to be open and honest with each other. You need to meet up with her sit her down and tell her exactly how she is making you feel. Have an good chat with her and try and clear the air. Its the best way to handle this situation. If you dont tell her now how you feel then it will keep building inside you until one day you will explode and argue with her. Be calm with her and tell her how she is making you feel. I bet she doesnt even realise you feel like this. Goodluck.
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