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writes:I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take care of my fiancé and her children and she would not have to worry about anything. She would be able to open up her dream business and they would grow old together. It turned out that this was her cousin. I ask my fiancé about my findings and she said she had a crush on him and he on her when they were younger but no sex or anything like that happened. She said she never responded to the things with sexual overtones but that she had about other things.I wonder if there was and is a relationship between the two of them and if not how could she have so many letters with him making sexual and relationship type comments to her.I am confused. I love her but I feel like I have been betrayed and lied to.
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reader, Latti +, writes (25 April 2012):
Okay....let's get to the knitty gritty...THAT IS NOT HER COUSIN! I know we should give a person, "The Benefit of the Doubt", but it sounds like she is playing games! Listen to yourself..."She use to have a crush on him".....WHAT??? Your cousin??? "He's going to take care of her & her children & she'll be able to open that dream business & they will grow old together. REALLY! He is playing a game with her mind & selling her a pipe dream....FROM PRISON!!! My friend, you sound like a mature, smart man.....do your homework & a background check! I wish you well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2012): "It turned out that this was her cousin."
Do you have confirmation of a blood relationship from someone other than your "fiancee?"
"I wonder if there was and is a relationship between the two of them and if not how could she have so many letters with him making sexual and relationship type comments to her."
Legit concerns, no obvious satisfactory answers.
". . . I feel like I have been betrayed and lied to."
Reasonable assumption, no obvious other explanation.
Sorry but it sounds like she's taking advantage of your felony-free lifestyle by using you strictly as her Plan B
on the outside. You need to find out when "cousin's" penis is scheduled for parole or release.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (25 April 2012):
 to be honest, Id be very worried.
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