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Is my boyfriend's behaviour with his "friend" inappropriate? ?

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Question - (7 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has a friend who a while ago he used to fancy. She rejected him because although she liked him she lives about two hours away and at the time neither of them had cars.

While my boyfriend and i were seeing each other she called him up saying "when you said you fancied me i really fancied you as well but cos of the distance i didnt go along with it and i really do like you". He told me he did fancy her a bit, which i didnt mind because we wernt serious.

A few months later he and his friends went to visit her for a house party on her birthday before which he flirted with her a lot and made quite a few suggestive comments, he has said nothing happened.We became offical shortly after.

Now we've been together almost a year and he contacted her to wish her happy birthday but this was then later followed by " i cant wait untill you get a car to come see me, or i get my car fixed and i can come visit you - I miss you xxxxx"

Should i be worried?

Thanks in advance:)

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (7 May 2011):

person12345 agony auntWell, it doesn't sound good. It sounds like you're basically settling for second fiddle. He really likes her, but he's dating you instead since she's far away. He doesn't sound like he has much respect for you or your relationship. That last text is extremely worrying, in that it sounds like either he plans to cheat or that if they can be together, he will go to her immediately.

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