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How do I get some meaningful sexual experience?

Q.   Hey there everyone, I've been feeling really blue lately. This is the first time I've ever really talked about this, so please bare with me a bit as I fumble with explaining things.. I'm 18 (and a half) and have no experience whatsoever wi...

A.   14 October 2009: Hi buddy, You are a classic case of "low self esteem". I love movies (film buff), videogames (Modern Warfare 2 anyone ?), Computers (I work for HP) ... all that crap. I love the internet etc etc .... so yeah I'm a bit geeky but you know wha... (read in full...)

Is my best friend using me for sex or does he really like me?

Q.   Hey I have a bit of a problem with a boy i like. he's one of my closest friends and he knows that i like him. he told me once that he likes me too but doesn't want to go out with me because it could ruin our friendship. he used to flirt with me and ...

A.   14 October 2009: Steady On ! Have you told this guy you are just friends ? If so - then this is normal behaviour is it not ? And your jealous ? If you've told him that your open to more than friends and he's still doing this then, yes- lose him ... waster.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my wife I am bisexual and want to bring a man and a horse costume into our bedroom?

Q.   I am a married man looking for some advice on how to break the news to my wife I am a bisexual and that ontop of this I have been attending furry nightclubs. My wife seems to think they are anime conventions, but in reality they are furry meetin...

A.   14 October 2009: A) Tell the wife B) Sign the sex offenders register C) Get laughed at by everyone... (read in full...)

I'm being used by guys for just sex

Q.   it seems as though im being used for sex by guys...im tired of it...this guy tells me were making love and i told him i took it seriously...and all he says is his job is very demanding and he's not ignoring me or wanting to hurt my feelings... ...

A.   14 October 2009: Are you in love ? Yes = Tell him to get his act together otherwise you are off No = Bye Bye ... (read in full...)

Room mate is a male whore! Should I rat him out?

Q.   My roommate will screw anything that isn't moving, which is why our cat never lies down. Right now he is juggling 4 girlfriends and yesterday a new girl showed up and he had sex with her too, only he said she wasn't a girlfriend. That makes 5 ...

A.   14 October 2009: Ok - with mates like you who need enemies ! Seriously - stop wasting your time on websites and get out there and f**k some girls. Safe sex is a 2 way thing - it's not just a guy's responsibility and that really annoys me about women. ... (read in full...)

How long should we wait before having sex?

Q.   Hi Im looking for some advice....Ive been going out with this boy for four weeks....he says he loves me at least once a day....and I love him 2....we are both virgins....how long should I wait before engaging in sex with him....IM 17 nd hes 19 ...

A.   14 October 2009: As a man (who was once 19 dating a 17 year old girl) I would suggest you wait until all conditions below are met : 1. You are 100% ready - you not him! 2. Birth control / STI care is taken care of (condom) 3. You both have time on your own... (read in full...)

My husband wants to have sex with other women!

Q.   hi friends i have a problem that my husband is very much interested in sex. he also wants to have sex with other women. he loves me, he takes care of me every time but he tells that this is his weakness. oneday i told that i will go away if he do...

A.   14 October 2009: Divorce - and take him for half.... (read in full...)

Never been kissed!

Q.   My 13 year old friend hasn't had her first kiss yet, but all of her other friends have. She thinks there's something wrong with her. I want to help her but I dont know wat to say to help her understand its okay and that her time will come. When I ...

A.   14 October 2009: I agree with Turtle in a way. It should be special but let's be honest here - your not waiting for superman to turn up. 1. Do you like him ? 2. Does he like you ? 3. If answer to 1 and 2 is yes then kiss goddammit ! No tongues, take yo... (read in full...)

I need tips and Ideas ASAP!

Q.   I just got a few quick questions here and I would love it if you guy's help me out with this one, ok so it's a new school year new people new class, in one of my classes there is this girl I am interested in getting to know her and what not, I ...

A.   14 October 2009: ok buddie - I'll give it to you straight Women like men (teenagers whatever) who are CONFIDENT. If you are shy and retiring you will NOT get with this girl. What you want to tell her (to her face and totally upfront) is that your heading to ... (read in full...)

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