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Are tattoos a turn-on or a turn-off for women?

Q.   are tattoos a turnoff for most women? i have one tattoo at the moment, girls don't seem to mind that, but im looking at getting another one on my back, legs and my forearm.... do you think this would be enough to make some girls lose interest...

A.   6 June 2007: thanks for the replies, i might just consider getting one sleeve done. and as for the cartoon characters and tribals, i'd have to agree.... (read in full...)

I set a honey trap and he fell for it... are all guys this bad??

Q.   HONEY TRAP! I've been talking to my on-line man for about 4 months and we were getting on really well, he lives 100 miles from me and we were planning a weekend together in a couple of weeks. However, I set a 'honey trap' for him on the website w...

A.   6 June 2007: no, but you can't blame a guy if occasionally temptation gets the best of him. guys don't cheat anymore than girls, if anything they cheat alot less from what ive seen.... (read in full...)

My parents were rigid and controlling and I have low self-esteem! How do I cope?

Q.   I have been brought up like an obedient servant by my parents who does everything they ask to, even if it's not something i want to do. They would pressurize me to do it if i denied and it is generally me who has to give up, for they are quite rigid ...

A.   26 April 2007: If you're in your 20's its definatley time to stand up to your parents. Just tell them to face the face you're not a child any more, and that whatever choices you have are yours too make. They might get pissed but I'm sure they'll come to ... (read in full...)

I am jealous and am losing my confidence, all because he looks at other females! Why is this happening to me?

Q.   Over the past year, I have beecome more insecure about myself. I was so confident before about myself that nothing bothered me at all, and I was just so happy. Now, I feel the opposite. My bf starts looking at other girls while im with him out in ...

A.   26 April 2007: All guys look at other girls, it doesn't mean anything, its just in our nature. Anyone that says otherwise is just flat out lying, don't take it personal. At the end of the day you're the only one he wants to be with, thats all that matters ... (read in full...)

We met on the internet, one minute hes 16, then 18, but now hes saying hes 20, Im 14 and confused as I love him!!

Q.   Hello...I am fourteen years old and I am dating a guy who is nineteen turning twenty a month before I turn fifteen...I met him over the internet and first he said he was sixteen. Then he told me he was eighteen and then he said he was seventeen ...

A.   24 April 2007: 16...18...then 20? 40 Sounds more accurate. If you ask me the guy is definatley a perv, why else would he lie so much about his age?... (read in full...)

Why would he not put a close up picture up for me to see?

Q.   hello I have question i met this man on a dating site he put a picture of him and two ladies and they were far not close. i asked him to put a close solo picture he said he has many but he doesnt know how to upload them. cause now he has an in...

A.   24 April 2007: He might just be worried that you won't like what you see. I wouldn't be too anxious to send some random person I met online a close up of my face either.... (read in full...)

Am I stupid to say I am in love with someone whom I have never met before?

Q.   i'm 18 years old and i live in birmingham (england), but i'm really attracted to a guy who lives in cardiff (wales) and he's 19. i've never met him before, but i've seen him on webcam so i know he's genuine and not a middle aged pervert. i've know...

A.   24 April 2007: I used to think online dating was pretty stupid, but then my sister met a guy online who lived 2500 miles away, now they're married and live together. So I say if it works, why not?... (read in full...)

Will he be turned off if I tell him..I am a virgin?

Q.   Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this? We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him. ...

A.   24 April 2007: I'd be more comfortable knowing I wouldn't look horrible in comparison. Unless he's got alot of experience, in which case he probably still wouldn't mind.... (read in full...)

How do I improve my confidence with guys?

Q.   I like this guy very much. We are in the same class. I want to know if he likes me too. However, I am the kind of girl who is very shy around boys. How can I not be shy? What are some tips to help me talk more freely to them? What are some ...

A.   24 April 2007: Try using alot of eye contact and smiling, if you think he's interested but he still hasen't brought it up, he's just too shy and is probably waiting for you to approach him first. Guys like it when girls confront them, so you might want to try i... (read in full...)

I'm not sure but is this guy using me as a 'f**k buddy"?

Q.   hiya a guy who ive known for a year and a bit , who i slept with a few times then broke it off when i began to fall for him ooh and also said how he has a girlfriend contacted me a few days ago . when i asked him if he was still with his girlfri...

A.   24 April 2007: Yeah he is using you as a fuck buddy. Doesn't mean he still dooesn't like you as a friend, he just sees you as a friend with benefits.... (read in full...)

Her new guy friend is attracted to her! As her bf, should I be concerned?

Q.   I have been going out with my grlfriend for 2 years and everything was great, but 6 months ago she made a new friend. He is a male and I had no problem with this but after meeting him on a number of occations it is obvious that he is attracted to ...

A.   24 April 2007: You could talk to him about it, man to man. But he might just be a coward and tell your girlfriend about it. ... (read in full...)

My confidence was crushed in the past but I have gained it back. So is it wrong for me to not think I'm 'not' ugly/bad-looking?

Q.   Hi I just want to know is it wrong for me to not think I'm ugly/bad-looking? I know I'm not exactly the sexiest, best looking 19 year old girl there is, but I don't think I'm ugly/bad-looking either. But I get girls that (in my opninion) don'...

A.   24 April 2007: If girls call you ugly thats not a really big deal, it's the guys who you should be worried about. Guys like girls who consider themselves to be goodlooking, so long as they arn't conceited about it.... (read in full...)

I'm a good teengaer and always try my hardest. Why does no one my age respect me, though?

Q.   Hello everyone This is my question! Is trying your hardest always worth it? I'm 14 and I know this sounds like I'm up my own a*e, but it really is an issue for me. I'm the 'perfect' teenager in a parent/guardian's perspective. I'm trustwor...

A.   24 April 2007: You might want to try letting loose a bit more. And keep in mind that 13/14 year olds are more narrow minded and naive than any other age group, even a couple years makes a huge difference. If nothing else, you can look forward to being wea... (read in full...)

Does boob size really matter in attractiveness to guys?

Q.   This sounds really silly, but...I'm 18 and I think my boobs are too small. All my friends a D's and big C's and I'm barely a C, probly closer to a B 1/2. I'm not a very big girl about 117lbs 5'6". So maybe it's normal for my size. Still my fr...

A.   24 April 2007: Alot of guys arn't very picky about boob sizes, myself included. I prefer a girl with a nice ass though, as do alot of other guys.... (read in full...)

Am I average height and weight for a 16 year old?

Q.   hi can anyone tell me the average weight for a 16 year old. iam 136 pounds and 5feet 8 inches. is this normal?...

A.   24 April 2007: I'm 16 and I'm 6'1, 165-170. But alot of my friends are around your size. I'd say its pretty normal.... (read in full...)

He kissed me and I told him to get off but at first he wouldn't. I don't feel I can trust him anymore. Any advice?

Q.   Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party. He was in my room eating chocolate. Appare...

A.   24 April 2007: He's 16, you're 12... And this happened at a chocolate party...? He's definatley a creepy guy, if I were you I'd stay away from him. Trust me, any guy whos 16 and doesn't see anything wrong with making out with a 12 year old is one messed up... (read in full...)

I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever.

Q.   I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever...like I don't know how to move my lips or my tongue or anything like that....

A.   24 April 2007: So long as you don't lick his teeth or you'll be fine.... (read in full...)

He deletes the history on his computer so he must still be looking at porn, but hiding it! I hate it and its ruining us!!

Q.   I have a huge problem with my boyfriend looking at porn (which I know he does). I looked on his computer once and saw in the history all the sites he had been looking through. It hurt so badly and I still can't stop thinking about it everyday, and ...

A.   24 April 2007: He may look at porn but at the end of the day you're the one he wants to be with. Most guys look at porn, the imagination just doesn't cut it alot of the time. And he is probably only hiding it from you so you don't get upset.... (read in full...)

Ladies, how do you tell your wife your biggest fantasy is to sleep with hot, young 18 years old females?

Q.   sexual fantasy / fantasies / fetish My wife has asked me before what kind of fetishes or fantasies I had. My real answer is hot young 18 year old girls. Would a wife really want to know the truth of a fetish or fantasy that has nothing to do wi...

A.   24 April 2007: My guess is she's hoping it's something she can help you out with. Telling her you want to have sex with a hot 18 year old girl might lead to you sleeping on the sofa.... (read in full...)

My son starts school soon and I'm terrified he'll be bullied.

Q.   my son will start school in september (he´s 5). I know I was bullied at school, and although it hit me really badly, I got out of it OK. But I´m scared that if my son gets bullied, he keeps it all in even if we tell him to tell us if he´s being ...

A.   24 April 2007: If you're that worried you could always put him in a kids self defense program.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for normal people to masturbate?

Q.   I just want to know is it normal for people to want to masturbate? Is their anything wrong with it aslong as it doesn't become excessive? I must admit I'm 14 and I find myself wanting to sometimes, I do it privately is this wrong? Chee...

A.   24 April 2007: Normal is it gets. And doing it frequently just prooves you have an active sex drive. ... (read in full...)

Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss

Q.   Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss and make out? What is appropriate for this age group....

A.   24 April 2007: 14 & 15? Definatley, besides, theres no harm in kissing someone.... (read in full...)

Why do girls say yes to a date but they also say "don't tell anyone" What's up with that, girls?

Q.   I don't get it. Does it just happen to me or do other guys get it too. Whenever I ask out a girl she says yes... but dont tell any one. Any girls here that can explain why?...

A.   24 April 2007: A girl said it to me once, not because she was shallow, but one of her friends liked me too. Could be something along those lines.... (read in full...)

My guy can't last longer than 10 seconds! What can we do?

Q.   is it normal for guys to only last no longer for 10 seconds? the guy im with now cant last longer then 10 seconds we even clocked it one day....its sad i feel like its getting in the way of our relationship i just dont know what to do i need help ...

A.   24 April 2007: 10 seconds? That seems a bit extreme, just curious... How old is your boyfriend? Premature ejaculation is caused by anxiety, tell him to relax and breathe. Might help you out a bit.... (read in full...)

I'm a good teengaer and always try my hardest. Why does no one my age respect me, though?

Q.   Hello everyone This is my question! Is trying your hardest always worth it? I'm 14 and I know this sounds like I'm up my own a*e, but it really is an issue for me. I'm the 'perfect' teenager in a parent/guardian's perspective. I'm trustwor...

A.   24 April 2007: I'm 16 and can't say I've gone through any of that. & I honestly think you're missing out by not letting loose a bit more. But you're right, 13/14 year olds are immature, naive and narrow minded, probably moreso than any other age group with t... (read in full...)

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