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Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?

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Question - (28 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what?

i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!!

any advice would be great.


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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (31 January 2008):

Cherriepie agony auntif you want to do the solo why would you want to do anything besides a dildo or vibrator? there's just too many sex toys out there to play with that are safe to use. i have dildos in a few different sizes and feels. some of them can be expensive but worth the money cuz you can use them and never wear them out. you can use food like cucumbers or bananas, but you should still put a condom on them to be safe. (never put an peeled bananna in your vagina!) as you know cucumbers come in some massive sizes...dont go so big! buy a bigger lifelike dildo if you want to do can brouse the net and buy them online. i was too embarrassed to buy a big one in the boutique..i didnt want people to stare, saying look at what shes buying! with a new dildo always use lots of lube and take your time to get used to how it feels..

but please dont be tempted to use strange foreign objects down there...use a real sex toy. you dont want to go to a hospital bcause you got a splinter in your uterus froma baseball bat!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007):

I don't give advice on what to use to masturbate with, as that is pretty intimate and depends on the person and what they are into, and seems to me something you can figure out without the advice of anonymous strangers and if a vibrator does the trick then why are interested in finding other things to use to get you the same answer was more a playful observation of you stating you were horny and putting it out there into cyber space, then a mocking derision of your question.....I still think you are wanting attention....from men.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

what you think i want attention just for asking a question of this nature? i think you'll find i'm completely serious and didn't intend to attract any particular attention from anyone.

thankyou to the guys who did answer, your answers posed more helpful than a female who should be able to give advice but chose to mock my question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007):

Ok, are you really surprised that you are getting answers about your self pleasure from men? Is this a serious question, or are you just putting it out there to get some attention?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (28 September 2007):

rcn agony auntI was going to say, using a boy might work for you. I really don't understand women. They're worried about self pleasure. Men have such a hard time finding a women, let along have sex. Women have all these little gadgets, toys, fruits, veggies, etc, when all they have to do is go out side, hold up a sign that says "horny, and volunteers" and they'd literally stop traffic with all the takers.

I agree though, cucumber, that's the main one my ex-wife use to joke with me about when we'd shop.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (28 September 2007):

Sandman agony auntI've heard of women using cucumbers for pleasure devices. Probably because it their huge size. Just place a condom over it and have at it.

I've also seen women using detachable shower heads to direct the spray of the water onto the clitoris - or just positioning yourself under the bath faucet while running warm water is also supposed to be a treat.

Don't forget about those magical fingers and hands. They've been doing the job right for centuries!

Other than those I've got nothing - of course, I don't have a vagina either.

Hope this helps.

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