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anonymous
writes:hi...i posted questions on here a few times about a boy named "J" well things were going really good. i loved him n i thought he loved me....well we got back together after 1 day of being bronken up. So he was supposed to walk with me like always to school, well he never showd, he went to breakfast. Dont get me wrong lol when ur hungry u gotta eat, but do you think its pure coincidence that he left me?? and so i got passed it for the time being and went on with my day...well i checkd my phone to look at any mesages and got a rather odd one: it read that he wanted them to let me know what he dont date me anymore and that he dosent like me. I have no idea who that person was. I wanted to ask him about this and he wont answer me, i must have sent 5 messages to him. I need help, i love this boy so much, and he treated me so good when we did date but it wasnt my fault we broke up! it was his! so what do i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): Sweety, I am sorry because this has to hurt. Your bf got someone else to do his 'dirty work'. I think you know that. I know that you like him a lot, so it's very tempting to settle for much, much less, here. Don't do it.. I am here to tell you to not to settle and to stay focused on on yourself...and your self-respect..your pride. Guys like this weak bf of yours are able to do stuff like this because so many females allow them to. Don't be one of those, poor misguided females. Those kind of girls make up lame, poor excuses for a guy like this and his bad behavior. The thing is, dear..he doesn't want to date anymore ad he didn't have the guts to tell you. Get out there and have fun and remember to be too busy, too well liked by others to bother with such a loser. Because any guy who isn't man enough to tell you to his face...is a coward. You want to do something and the best thing you can do is..move on because calling him up and trying to talk to him will not change his mind. So don't give him the chance to 'reject and hurt ' you all over again, hun. Stop all contact..now because he's simply not good enough for you. Don't expend any more of your precious time and energy on this loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): I think at your age, boys can be really crummy to girls, you see they are just little boys and into playing games and hanging out with their pals, more than into hanging out with girls and professing their love...he is just playing with you, I would not let him treat you this way. He is treating you rudely.
Don't chase after him, and don't send him any more texts, show him you are the happy girl you are and go out and have some fun with your friends, and of course concentrate on your school work, which is far more important than any silly little boy.
When you are a bit older, you will find that boys will be more into you and treating you nicely, and if they aren't you should not waste your time with them, you after all have better things to do then try to figure them out....they don't know themselves yet either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): Move on if he won't talk to you and someone texted you saying he doesn't want to date you & he stood you up. I am guessing it was him on someone else's phone (maybe his new girlfriend) that texted you.
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