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writes:I'm in the Army with 2yrs left the guy I met is in the Navy with 5 yrs left, we met up here on deployment, we've only known eachother for a month, when we leave deployment he will go back to his base in N.M and I'll go back to GA, the dilemma, we both have strong feelings for eachother, but we don't know what to call what we have or want to have because we both know our future we will part due to our military branches and locations. It's tuff to end what we have and be friends when we both are emotionally and physically attracted to eachother and want more. If it was up to us we'd want our fantasy to be together after deployment. Is it ok to continue to care about eachother even though were going to part and know this will probably end hard for the both of us?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease excuse my grammer on the question to everyone who took their time out to read this. (was in a rush)Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your comment. I will go back to your comment so it can help me know that it's always possible. :)
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reader, dearkelja + ♥, writes (2 November 2007):
 Given your age and the fact that both of you will be living the same kind of life you may have a better chance than most. You'll both understand the sacrifices you've made and emotionally you'll both be going through the lonliness together. If you can maintain contact through email and phone and then plan a couple of trips to see each other from time to time, I think that you have a great chance. Don't give up what you have, it's worth working on or putting on hold for a later date. I wish you both luck and thank you both for your service to our country! God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I remember your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your comment, I will remember your advice. :)
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