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writes:I'm just wondering if anyone else does this, I still speak to my ex on the phone most days, and see him somedays too, even though he has a girlfriend, but the past couple of months we have been having sex, I know it's wrong but we just can't seem to help it.I still have feelings for him and I'm really not sure if he has feelings for me.Is it normal for an ex to carry on sleeping with his ex when he's seeing someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Female reader. How come he is using and degrading her ? She is using that poor boy as her own sex personal slave. He could be scarred for life by this when he wipes that big grin of his face and realises he's being sexually abused.
For christs sake they are adults having consensual sex and they havent long split up and sometimes it just happens.
Some women these days have admitted to enjoying sex you know.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 "Is it normal for an ex to carry on sleeping with HER ex?"
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 October 2009):
No it's not normal. He's using you both. Do you want to be used by a guy who doesn't care about you? End it and find a guy who will actually care for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Morally its wrong. After all it is cheating. But it is normal if the ex lets it happen. The sex is still pretty good and its available. Most men are basically tarts though not many admit it.I doubt many will resist sex on a plate if they think they will get away with it.
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reader, L*  +, writes (18 October 2009):
Why are you letting him use you and degrade you? don't you have any self-respect? he clearly doesn't want you to be his girlfriend (as he has a new one) but he wants to continue having sex with you and you're obliging...and giving him the message that you don't mind being used and seen as good only for sex.to answer your question, of course it's NOT normal to carry on sleeping with the ex...especially if he has a new gf/bf.
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reader, sweetpea21  +, writes (18 October 2009):
go ahead enjoi the sex...the more forbidden the better...but are you sure you wnat this man who cheats on his girl...if he could cheat on his current girl for you, then i dont consider him lifelong material...there are many eligible men out there...!!!
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