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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I love her, but I have to keep it moving. I've been involved with a lady for on and off for about a year. She's definitely the BIGGEST drama queen I've have to deal with. She recently broke up with me because she's jealous of my friends and she felt like she had to compete with the love we had. As far as friends go, she just had a problem with giving me some time to hang out with my friends, and yes men do need their space too. She was rather jealous of a female friend of mine. This female friend of mine and her have met, and yet she felt like she couldn't trust me. This female friend of mine is just a friend, she's very fat and ugly. She's nothing more than a friend I smoke pot with. I even introduced both of them because I have nothing to hide with the relationship, but still I knew she couldn't trust me.She felt like she loved me more because of the things she's done for me. Yet, she overlooked and didn't even appreciate the little things I've done for her. I don't get paid very good for my job, and yet she criticized me as being cheap, but she has bad credit. At times, she can be a hipocrite of her own word. She felt like I never supported her, yet and still I participated in every play or event she was involved in up until she broke up with me. What I need to know is, 1. Is it all my fault? 2. What can I do to better my next relationship 3. Do I have to be financially ready for a relationship that is new to me and her?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 No if it's like you have said you most certainly did not do anything wrong and no you do not need to be financially ready for a relationship, sounds like this girl is very up herself and i would forget about her don't let her bring you down, you sound like a gentleman and you will find someone you deserve and who apprieciates you for who you are you just keep on doing what you have been.
Good luck & take care.xx.
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