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Is it harmful for me that he sucks my nipples during sex?

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Question - (24 October 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2014)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I Just married women my husband is very understandable he makes me happy during sex but i m confused about one point, that he is suking my nipples {not bite} he want to make me happy but is this right?I Like it too but little bit confused that it is harmful for me n specially my husband?plz help me...

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A male reader, barath India +, writes (20 July 2014):

dear madam There is no harm in it for either party, but you need to discuss your likes and don't like honestly with each other. Communication is vital. Sucking, nibbling, licking, stroking and gentle squeezing will cause the nipples to become erect(a sign of arousal). However, women differ in their reaction to this type of stimulation so it is important that you indicate to your partner what you like and what you don't like.Best wishes and always keep smiling.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

My husband suckling milk from my breasts has been a beautiful and intimate thing. I weaned my four year old at one year of age, but my husband had started by teasing and fondling my breasts at that time - he finally started to actually draw nilk from them. He is highly educated, but came to this country from a remote part of Sicily when he was 8 yrs. old and was breast fed until he was five years old. He loves to suckle and spends about 20 minutes on each side. I don't talk to my frinds about this because they think is is strange. However, I feel what a couple do in private is up to them. And, by the way, it brings me to orgasm - so we both get pleasure from it.

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A female reader, awesome-o South Africa +, writes (27 October 2008):

its fine as long as he acknowledges that they are not tv dials and cannot go all the way around...

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A female reader, L°vE United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

No way it's not harmful it feels good and I encourage my bf to do it while we are in the act...it makes me feel great and helps me have a stronger more enjoyable orgasm!

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (27 October 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntIt's a normal part of foreplay and it actually DOES become quite relevant and helpful after childbirth. If you are planning on becoming pregnant eventually, I remember in childbirthing class being told that "foreplay with your nipples during sex can help toughen them up for nursing", and she highly recommended it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

Dear Poster

For most women, the breast are part of the Erogenous zones and are highly erotic; it can play a vital part in sexual excitement. Sucking, nibbling, licking, stroking and gentle squeezing will cause the nipples to become erect(a sign of arousal). However, women differ in their reaction to this type of stimulation so it is important that you indicate to your partner what you like and what you don't like.

There is no harm in it for either party, but you need to discuss your likes and don't like honestly with each other. Communication is vital.

Best wishes and always keep smiling.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (25 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntI'm still here and pretty darn happy and healthy after 45 years of suckling. LOL

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008):

In no way, is it harmless and yes,it's perfectly normal. And in fact, many, many women love having their nipples sucked, due to the sensitivity of that particular area, during sex. Lay back and enjoy his attentions. And when you do that, just remember it adds some fun to your lovemaking and makes it a nice erotic experience for the both of you!

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (24 October 2008):

Sandman agony auntSucking your breasts and nipples during sex is very normal. Men like to suck the breasts of the woman they are with. Not only is it something that men desire to do, but most women find this pleasurable as well.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, sadie30 United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2008):

i agree nipple sucking is a part of foreplay and very often happens during sex as well as before, it is not harmful to you or your husband, enjoy and it and be pleased that he wants to stimulate in that way xx

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (24 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntSucking nipples is in no way dangerous to you or your husband. It's a pretty typical part of foreplay! As long as you both are comfortable with it, it is completely fine to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008):

We seriously need sex education classes.No its not harmful at all.If you like it just enjoy!!

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