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41-50,
*hannon Williams
writes:I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really interested though I decided to go slow and try to be more time together, the fact is it came out he slept around with some other coleague and he acted cool to me so I thought we could be friends, he asked me if I was on a relationship and I told him I was free so I thought it was the time to ask about him and bingo he's married and about to go o holidays with his family. He looks very interested on us being friends and I think he's cool and I feel ok about it all but I have a weird feeling that it is not good sa I think he's cute and such stuff maybe going out sometima as he suggested wouldn't be ok as something else could happen anyway we won't see each other for a time.....Any ideas about coping with my friend??? thanks in advance
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reader, Shannon Williams +, writes (27 June 2009):
Shannon Williams is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks so much for your advice
it was cool to feel interest from a cute bloke but circumstances show the situation very much as you describe it to me. Fortunately we are to be awaya for a long time due to summer holidays and work reasons so it won't be difficult for me to stay away though I'm to miss him really, he said he would come town sometime next month and call me to go out so I think I will follow your nice and wit advice if he calls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Thanks so much for your advice
it was cool to feel interest from a cute bloke but circumstances show the situation very much as you describe it to me. Fortunately we are to be awaya for a long time due to summer holidays and work reasons so it won't be difficult for me to stay away though I'm to miss him really, he said he would come town sometime next month and call me to go out so I think I will follow your nice and wit advice if he calls.
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reader, vodkablue  +, writes (27 June 2009):
hey hun
i would tread with caution with your friend.
i dont want to put a downer on things but if you know hes already slept with another colleague he may be viewing you the same way-hes playing it cool because hes trying to suss you out.
im sorry if it sounds mean i hope he is a genuine friend for you but just by reading your story i can see warning signals,
stay safe hun and take care and look after yourself
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