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writes:Hello there everyone :Dit has been 2 years since i posted here, and i must say i got some realy good advice back then. so im in need of help once more it seems....ok so long story short, 4 year ago i met a girl, had a crush, we were besties, told her i had a crush on her and I DECIDED to take distance from her (based on my decision not hers... stupid move on my part i knw), became friends again 6 months after, we are now besties again.My emotions have been consistent towards this girl for the past 4 years; now my questions are :D1- she is an only child and im basically her only CLOSE guy friend (she is not shy at all.. she is a tomboy kind of girl who doesnt like dating). she recently called me a ''younger brother'' and that she loves me to bits and pieces, is that good?2- im not flattering myself, but im a basic ''nice guy'' stereotype so i just wanna know my chances straight (any criticism would be appreciated too)thnx in advance and i hope u all have a wonderful day ^_^
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 October 2012):
 No, you got Brother-zoned which is akin to Friends-zoned.
She likes you a lot but not in a romantic way at all.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (18 October 2012):
 Well it really wasn't stupid to distance yourself from her in the past, she liked you as only a friend so you took some distance from her. That's smart, you were saving yourself heartache from hanging onto someone that wasn't interested the same way. But it seems you are back in the same position again. Calling you a younger brother is a friendly term. Seeing someone as a brother is definitely not romantic and unlikely it ever will be. There is nothing wrong with you being a nice guy, just this particular girl is not interested in more than friendship. So if you really like her a lot more than just friends you maybe should distance yourself again because it will only hurt you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2012):
 you are a "younger brother" honey that's friendship... not romance..
are your chances good to date her... not really.
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