A
male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:i have a question,,i have a girl friend who ive known for 11 months and i found out she had been doing any guy she could get her mouth on ..or in her vigina..this was before me..is it a good idea to stay with her,or let her go..she is a nice looking girl but i was told by friend ,she gets loose when she drinks booze and screws who ever..should i stay or should i go. i want to settle down.should i with this women..
View related questions:
move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): you already have your doubts about her fidelity and i think you know the answer. please do not just settle. if you truly want a good decent person in your life, some things are worth waiting for. you are still young . but please if you don't want to be with her then don't lead her on. she is a human being as well so please don't use her, then discard her. do the right thing here
A
female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 May 2009):
 Even though she hasn't cheated on you, it might be her pattern. Will you always be near her when she drink ( and sorry getting drunk doesn't mean someone HAS to screw around that is just an excuse)
The friend who told you, is he/she a reliable source? Maybe you should talk to HER instead.
If you think she is someone you want to settle with them maybe you two need a talk. And before you start having regular sex with her maybe you BOTH need to have a STD panel done. That way you both know if anyone has anything.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Everybody has a past and its somthing you might have to learn to accept but if she still behaves like that dont stay around.
...............................
A
male
reader, bugmenot3 +, writes (20 May 2009):
ok now this is a easy answer LEAVE HER ASS!!
she isnt worth it there way hotter girls then her it isnt worth catching a STD
...............................
A
male
reader, GrimmReality +, writes (20 May 2009):
 You answered your own question...
If you like being hurt and cheated on, then stay with her, cuz cheaters do not change. But I suggest that if you already know you can't trust her...
The curb. Find the nearest one and kick her to it.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): The final choice is yours, are you prepared to put up with her sleeping around when she is supposed to be in a relationship with you? What if she picks up HIV and gives it to you?
She must make up her mind, either you or the booze. Cos the way I see it, she uses booze as an excuse to have random sex.
If she does decide that she wants to be with you, both of you need to get tested, no unprotected sex until you are both assured that you are not infected in any way.
...............................
|
