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age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi :) I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and now have been living with him for about 3 months. He is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, without a doubt. We both have two children from previous marriages. About 6 months ago his sister asked him ( right in front of me) if he wants to eventually get married to me? He told her "yeah, if I was ever to get married again, she would be the one." The way he answered this was very indirect like as if I wasn't even in the room. Yesterday, We took a walk in the park And I asked him what he thought about he and I getting married some day. Same thing... "Well I told my family that if I was ever to get married again, you would be the one."WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? Does that sound like he is uncertain about it? I feel ready but don't want to pressure him. We love living together and can't imagine my life without him. Any thoughts or ideas? Thank you Aunts AND Uncles :) Reply to this Question
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reader, everyminute +, writes (21 August 2012):
It's only been one year... give it time.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 August 2012):
 he's not in the market to marry.
He likes what he has with you just the way it is...
if you want to marry, he's not the one at this point...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 August 2012):
 You may take him EXACTLY "at his word."
He said, "IF (he) were EVER to marry again, (it would be to you)...."
Focus on "IF"......
HE's "got" all he wants.... YOU have to decide if YOU have all YOU want....
Good luck....
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