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Will a man automatically fancy a younger women than once closer to his age?

Q.   Hello, I'm 37 years old and I fancy a guy of 45 who I suspect fancies me too. However, there is a pretty girl of 26 that also likes him. Will he automatically fancy her more because she is younger? When I found out she liked him I have been avoiding...

A.   25 August 2016: If he is a lady's man charming all the pretty girls at work he may not only be looking at you like he fancies you but the 26 yr old as well. ... (read in full...)

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

Q.   I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

A.   5 October 2015: Thank you. ... (read in full...)

Is he uncertain about marriage? The indirect way he answers the question bothers me.

Q.   Hi :) I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and now have been living with him for about 3 months. He is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, without a doubt. We both have two children from previous marriages. About 6 months ag...

A.   21 August 2012: It's only been one year... give it time.... (read in full...)

I slept with my best friend's girl (whom I've been in love with since the day we met) Now she has broken up with him, should I come clean with him about what happened?

Q.   Hey readers. I really need your help. My bestfriend introduced me to his girlfriend a year ago. I instantly found her attracive, she is so beautiful. When I began talking to her even her voice was beautiful. I have always had a crush on her but 2 ...

A.   21 August 2012: I dont think you should tell him, unless you want to end your friendship. You should continue to see this girl and if things progress as you wish then tell him you want to date her. ... (read in full...)

After ten years of marriage, I find out my husband has had an affair.

Q.   I am writing because I need advice. After 10 years of marriage and two kids of ages 8 and 2, I found recently that my husband was having an affair. I kicked him out of the house but now I want him back. My husband now blames me for our split and ...

A.   21 August 2012: Dont get back with him or let him blame you. He should be the one begging to have you back and be feeling sorry for his actions. It's his mistake, not yours. Dont feel bad. You are only between 30-35yrs old, you can find someone who loves you for ... (read in full...)

My married lover wants to continue seeing me while he ties up loose ends with his soon to be ex-wife

Q.   I am involved with a man who is still married but unhappy. he tells me he will file for divorce within the next 5 months because he is unhappy. he wants to wait to do it because she is not able to support herself financially due to their debt.......

A.   20 December 2011: Be very careful. Men will say anything to keep having sex with you. Most married men dont leave their marriage. They just want their cake and eat it too. I suggest you drop him.... (read in full...)

My friend agreed to a threesome with her husband but now we are sneaking around behind her back!

Q.   i am 32 female.quite often i had threesome with my friend and her husband.problem is now that her husband and me are doing sex without her knowledge and quite enjoy it.i have no partner after divorced.and my friend invited for threesome when i was ...

A.   20 December 2011: Sneaking behind your friend's back is not ok. If you want your frienship, I suggest you stop having sex with them. Period. Not even with her being present. If you continued this way, I can only imagine that it will end pretty ugly.... (read in full...)

My gf is upset after we have sex, she told me she was abused. Any Advice?

Q.   I have been seing a girl for about 6 months now, I am also a girl. We have just started sleeping together and i noticed that she always seemed a bit off after. She eventually told me that she was abused as a young child, she didnt tell me who it w...

A.   20 December 2011: Do you think that maybe she seems off because she did not orgasm? I ask this because I would get upset if my boyfriend orgasms before making sure I am satisfy.... (read in full...)

He hunts for girls that are tight like virgins. How do I make myself like this?

Q.   I am in relationship with a divorce man whose got kids as well. He lives in a city and I work for a project in another province, comes home only twice a month. I have a long term relationship with him as well as in business. My favourite past t...

A.   25 December 2009: I am a mother of three. I've been told that I'm very tight and no one would ever know i've had three kids. Kegal exercises are my secret. Do sets of 30 thru out the day, when you're at a stop light, working on your desk, or cooking. No body can tell ... (read in full...)

Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...

A.   3 March 2009: Yes it's too early. You're only 14yrs old. You may think you're in love but do you even know what love is? You're going to meet so many more people out there, explore, have fun, and dont settle too soon.... (read in full...)

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