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female
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writes:There is a guy that I like, think he likes me back. He kind of asked me out a few times but then seemed to bottle it and change the question to 'So, when are you next out?'This kept on happening and I got tired of it and basically said to him that he was confusing me and we should either just go out on a date or stay friends. Bad move, as he stopped talking to me.. every time he saw me he was awkward and I was awkward because I was embarrassed as I thought I had read too much into things.. Mess!Then, out of the blue, about a month later, he starts talking to me again, and tells me that he liked the ''agressive'' way I spoke to him (baring at mind at this point he was a bit drunk).When I am with him, it seems like he likes me but doesn't really know what to do about it. He tells me nice things, there is flirty eye contact and banter, but then nothing else happens.We haven't kissed or anything yet. In a weird way, I think I intimidate him a bit because he is such a nice guy.Now if me being blunt caused him to run a mile, then I can't really say anything to him about it, but at the same time I am not sure if I am reading too much into it.Is he just shy or are we just friends? Do I initiate something and hope that he responds the way I want? I am so confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): Surely I would embarrass myself though if he didn't actually like me? I can't be sure how he feels without asking him, but am scared to do so, in case he goes all weird again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): ahhhh i was in this guys situation about a year ago. just be nice and tell him that you have a thing for him. good luck:)
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