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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy I've known for about 3 months is really driving me crazy. He was interested in me at first, i think atleast, cause he randomly chatted me up on facebook. It was this guy I met when I passed by my old school, he was with some people that I knew (I didn't know him personally at this time). After 2 weeks, he Chats me and just starts a light conversation saying hey and stuff. he than asked for my number and we texted for about a week. I suggested to hang out, and he was really happy to, and set up a specific date. During our hang out things went well, and during the movies, he held my hand. afterwards we went to a romantic park and he put his arms around me. He hugged me a good bye, and left. After this date, I thought he'd contact me FAR MORE OFTEN, if not the same amount, but he contacts less and less. And he would be like "i have to go now, text me if you want" on chat. He told little things to me like "hey we should do this and this together etc" but never actually initiates the hang outs. So I say again, hey we should do this! and than immediately he responds with a date and asks if im available. The Second date however, he didn't hold my hand, and our date was fun and all, but the romantic aspect was a little less. And after that hangout he went on a 2 month ish trip, and didn't text me before he left ;;. ppl in his school tell me that he's kind of a quiet, type and they're really surprised when i told them that he held my hand etc. I never initiate contact, but with him, I have a few times, cause my friends told me that he might think i didn't like him and that i was out of his leage. (A lot of people dont get why i like him and say that im too good for him but I like him cause he's so kind and is real unlike many other men). He only had one or two gf's but he isn't desparate for a gf (he turned down 3 girls who asked him out during the past year). Do you think he's interested? He said he won't be able to contact me during his two month trip and he's coming back in about a month. but the fact that he didn't text/call before he left really bugs me;;. I told him to have a good trip the day before he left, and he replied with a "thanks. hope you have a nice summer" and i replied back, but he ignored. any thoughts? i really like this guy.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (22 July 2012):
 I'm so don't want to tell you this, but this is a classic case of ' He's just not that into you '
When you like someone, you want to see them all the time.
Maybe he's gay?
Stop contacting him and leave the ball in his court.
Try and move on look around for someone who's into you too xx
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