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writes:Hey, im 17 and bisexual from Australia.Lately i've been going crazy over my sexual orientation. At times i think im gay, and im happy about it. I'd love to be in a gay relationship for the rest of my life, but at the same time, i really want a straight relationship. I'd love to have a wife and kids.Please help me out here, cause im slowly going insane. What should i do with my life, cause i just cant be alone forever.Ps: Im ok with adoption in a gay relationship, but i have a problem of raising MY OWN kid in a gay family.Thanks so much :D Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): You are 17 and its wayyy to early to be thinking about settling down because it will confuse you just like it has.
What I know for sure is you will need to have a kid of your own. Adoption works but it is very different to having a child birthed from your loins.
Secondly, how would a child feel being raised in a house with two men? his friends are going to have mom's and he's gonna have two dad's??
You might end up building a wall around your kid except you are in a society that accepts these trends.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (22 July 2012):
 Have you thought about polyamory? My partner and I are and we have a girlfriend. I am bisexual and wanted to date women and still be with him and he also was interested in dating other women. This works for us as we believe that love can be multiplied and we like the idea of one day having a large family with more than just one mother and a father. It makes more sense to us! It's worth researching anyway!
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