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writes:i have only been with my boyf. for a day and he already is saying that he wants to have sex And im not ready at all but if i dont i will get called fridged and i dont want that to happen so am i just going to have to have sex with him or is there something i can do ?please help and thanks for any comments . Reply to this Question
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (12 October 2009):
 My friend had this problem. if he wants sex with you after a day, hes way to far forward, even if you WERE ready for it i wouldnt do it just to see if he stuck around with no sex at all. Your obviously not ready to do, and if your not, dont do it !Sex is meant to be special and your first time youll remeber for the rest of your life. You want the boy to respect you and you to respect yourself. So tell him your not ready and if reacts badly dump his arse and find someones who ready to wait. Sex is great experience, but its even better when your ready, safe and when its with someone you care about.
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reader, Blod +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Do not have sex with somebody until you're 100% ready. You don't want to so don't! I'd prefer to be called names and picked on instead of doing something so personal and exposed that I could regret for a long, long time.
This guy is certainly not worth being with, I'm sorry. One day and already he's showing signs that he's using you. Sound like he's after one thing. I don't think he has any respect for you.
Stand up for yourself and show that you have a back-bone. Just finish with him and tell him how you feel. He's not worth being with so don't waste your time on him!
Good Luck. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): You have two questions on this site: One is this one, where you've been with your boyfriend for a day and he wants sex and you're NOT ready. And the other is where you've been with your boyfriend for two years and he wants sex and you DO feel ready for sex. What the heck is going on? Fakes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): Hiya,If you have only been with your boyfriend for a day he should not be pressuring you into sex, especially if you're not ready. Dont feel that you NEED to do it, wait untill you're ready. Try talking to him and tell him you dont feel comfortable, if he still doesnt listen and is adamant that he wants sex, leave him! He's npot worth it. Wait for the right guy to come along, sex shouldnt be rushed. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
One day!!! He has some nerve!! He wants you for sex and nothing else, so if you're not ready, split from him. Don't worry about being called frigid, because you will have your self respect and you won't have given into a guy who really isn't all that great. That's much more important.
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