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Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

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Question - (21 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend started having problems. I asked for some closure because he told me that the relationship has been damaged and it can't work. It's been three months since we been together.

So why does he continue to stare at me when we are in church? Why does he make it his business to come and speak to me even though he's on the other side of the room? Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

Why you so concerned with what he wants? What about what you want? What do you want to do with your life? Do you want this man, but your afraid he'll hurt you again? Why are you so concerned with what he's doing.

You went out, things went bad, you broke up. Now he keeps looking at you. Well, if a guy looks it means his interested. I'm not sure what he's interested in, but we know his interested and you've got his attention.

You want to know what he thinks? You wanna know if he likes you, ask him, then you'll know and you can stop confusing your head. If you want him back, then tell him so. He could reject you, it could be the best idea he's ever heard. Who knows, take a chance.

If you want to know what's going on, your gonna have to swallow your pride and ask. Regrets in life stink and are best to avoid. You don't want him, then ignore him, he'll stop looking.

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A male reader, Mr Tips United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

Its sounds to me like he doesn't want you at the moment but doesn't want anybody else to have you until he's made up his mind about you %100, Question is do you want him?? if yes tell him see what he says. If no tell him it wont matter what he says.

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