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He's changed for the worse since we had our child, what can I do?

Q.   i have been with my husband on and off for 5 years and we lived together most of that time we are young i moved in with him after i turned 17 and he is 2 years older well we got married about a year and half ago when i found out that i was pregnant. ...

A.   8 June 2008: The best thing you could do as a wife is not to be one get out of this relationship asap, I know you say you love him but it seems to me that he does not love you. No man should ever raise his hand in any way towards any woman not matter what has ... (read in full...)

Why do I have these feelings? Will I ever have them with my boyfriend or any other man?

Q.   Hi there i'm in a bit of a mess, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Okay I will start from the beginning... There's this guy at work, and i slept with him (my boss) and yes he's married, and yes i have a boyfriend. So please, I know it was ba...

A.   21 May 2008: Because you know you should not be doing this with this man(your boss) its a bit daring a bit risky thats the reason you get turned on so quick, its exciting to you. do something similar with your boyfriend like i duno have sex on a bus or somewhere ... (read in full...)

All I did was ask her if she cheated on me!!

Q.   Why would my girlfriend brake up with me?! All I did was ask her a question to see if she had cheated on me....

A.   21 May 2008: in it obvious she did cheat on you but doesn't want to tell you she did. ... (read in full...)

This boy slapped my bum, what should I do?

Q.   Today i was walking up the stairs in my school when suddenly a boy slapped me on the bum! I turned round to see it was a year seven (i'm in year eight) who also happens to be my cousin's best friend! My cousin is also in year 7, and he is real...

A.   21 May 2008: the only thing I would do is slap him and say to him "hurts doesn't it" if he does it again tell your cuz. ... (read in full...)

Is this feeling called love or something....?

Q.   There is this facilitator or can also be regarded as my teacher. Usually from what I know and read, people said that your heart will beat faster when you like someone. But for me, having him near me or when HE’s talking to me (just asking questions ...

A.   21 May 2008: I think myself this felling you have is called infatuation, not love, you feel as though he is there just for you, NO he is there doing his job nothing more. It is very common for students to fall for their teacher but like I said its called ... (read in full...)

Please take a minute to pray for me...

Q.   My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong eno...

A.   21 May 2008: I know exactly what he's going though. don't blame him for the way his x wife is. He wants to see his kids and will do anything to see them, if all it takes is acting nice to his x wife well done him. keep in mind its his kids he's doing this for ... (read in full...)

Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend started having problems. I asked for some closure because he told me that the relationship has been damaged and it can't work. It's been three months since we been together. So why does he continue to stare at me when we are in c...

A.   21 May 2008: Its sounds to me like he doesn't want you at the moment but doesn't want anybody else to have you until he's made up his mind about you %100, Question is do you want him?? if yes tell him see what he says. If no tell him it wont matter what he says.... (read in full...)

Sex tips please for a first timer.

Q.   I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please. We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too. Thanks xxx...

A.   21 May 2008: just do what you do you will find out what each other like as time goes by, you cant get tips to be a great lover you just are or not. one other thing a bj is a good bj there are no bad ones.... (read in full...)

He says he loves me, I believe him, but the moment he's gone I ask myself lots of questions,

Q.   I met my boyfriend January this year, he told me that he does not have a girlfriend, and i did not believe him because all man say that. Later my friend told me that he has girlfriend, a long time one, that did not bother me much... until he told...

A.   16 May 2008: Just one other thing I forgot to tell you, "not all men are like that" some are but then again so are some woman.... (read in full...)

He says he loves me, I believe him, but the moment he's gone I ask myself lots of questions,

Q.   I met my boyfriend January this year, he told me that he does not have a girlfriend, and i did not believe him because all man say that. Later my friend told me that he has girlfriend, a long time one, that did not bother me much... until he told...

A.   16 May 2008: If you have doubts then wait, If he loves you put him to the test, don't have sex with him for a while see if he still comes back to you, and definitely do not have a child with him. Tell him you want to wait a few years before having children, If ... (read in full...)

My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?

Q.   I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most ...

A.   16 May 2008: I don't think you are over reacting at all, Your freind is lonely and needs to be loved so she thinks so you cant blame her, but the 30y old should know better, why isn't he with someone his own age, alarm bells are ringing, as far as over reacting ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to bleed after fingering? I'm still a virgin.

Q.   ok...Im a virgin and haven't really done anything...But recently I have let my b/f finger me, however when he's done and i go to the bathroom or i notice that i've been bleeding. There's no weird odors and i haven't felt pain or discomfort of any ...

A.   16 May 2008: It does not happen to everyone but I would not worry to much, If there is a lot of blood then go see a doctor now, if it a small amount then alls that has happened is that his fingers were to big to fit in you and has stretch you to much so ther... (read in full...)

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can get over him fast?

Q.   It's been Five months since my boyfriend and I broke up. Well we didn't break up...he decided not to call me and ditch me so he could get back with his ex(who insidently left him for his best friend). I haven't seen him since last november and I th...

A.   16 May 2008: You are already over him, the fact that he stands out at the mall is because you know him, you recognize him in a crowd, have you ever looked for you friend in a crowded place, hard to see at first but then when you see them they seem to stand out, ... (read in full...)

We're both too shy to ask the other out!

Q.   I like this boy and I'm pretty sure he likes me. However we're both to shy to ask the other out. What should I do?...

A.   16 May 2008: Ask him today, you want to know the answer to your question then ask him, whats the worst that can happen, if he says no then move on, if he says yes move on ether way you will move on not be stuck in the rut you are now.... (read in full...)

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