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*hrysiiiiii
writes:Hi i dont where to start ..well i have been with this guy for about 5 months now.I love him very much and he tells me he loves me too.I am kinda a jealouse person so when i see something i am start thinking alot. 5 days ago he turn on his fhone after so long so when i need to call him i can contact him.And since the fhone got back on he is holding it 24/7 seems like he is hiding it from me. And i am gettin this strong feeling that he is flirting.I talked to him about it 5 days now we fighting about it alot. And i know i went ot far with my thoughts but he told me he doesn doing anything and i sould trust him because what i do that will really fucked up our relationship so i am trying to suck it up and not asking him anymore or ask why he sleeps with his fhone or seem like he is hiding it from me.He even has it on mute so when it rings i cant hear it.He has change these past 5 days and i told him that and he said that its my fault i changed him...ugh i dont know what to do please help me ....;( Is he cheating on me is he hiding something how can i talk to him with out fighting ...:(
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
 It all boils down to trust. Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him in the past? How much of a change is this from his normal behavior?
Trust your gut, but if you have a history of being overly jealous and suspicious, you will want to consider that too.
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reader, chrysiiiiii +, writes (18 February 2011):
chrysiiiiii is verified as being by the original poster of the question You're right, I will do my best to stop today. I told him I am, over the phone. I am just missing him I just want him to care for me and spend time with me. He said that I need to stop and that I need to give him a lil space, so after he came back from work he said he will go out and that he needs to think and that he is not going to cheat on me and that he just needs time to himself...so I said okay, but right now while he is out there I am going nuts. Soo hopefully he is not doing anything to hurt me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): if you get the feeling he is cheating on you he probably is. his behaviour is suspicious enough but gut feelings arethe best place to start when there is some doubt. x x
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 February 2011):
He's a boy with a new toy. He'll get bored enough with it in another week or so. Relax.
I always keep my phone on silent or vibrate too. So what? It doesn't mean I'm hiding anything just like it doesn't mean he is.
Could he be cheating on you? We can't tell based on what you've said here. But I'll tell you this. If you keep up this untrusting behavior, you will drive him away quickly.
Don't let your paranoia get the better of you.
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