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writes:girls help me out!.... im very insecure about my pubic hair. i always shave but it grows sooo fast..and i also shave between my butt cheeks ;)..whats the best way to get rid of hair down there ?!i cant wax im allergic..guys: is it a turn off if you find little hair down girls butt crack?.. i have a fear of my man going down on me and he loves to do it from behind and find little hair and turn him off..very embarrassing question ..please be honest ..i have a 2 beauty marks ( moles i guess you can say) down on my private parts.. one is about a dime size on the right side on mu inner thigh/vagina crease. the other once is smaller but its right on my clit. I am so self conscious about it, i have few sexual partners and im still very embarrassed for a guy to see me down there. when i was 17 my 1st boyfriend made fun of me cuz of them. since then im afraid to have a guy look down their..most of the time i would have sex in the dark. my current boyfriend doesn't seem to mind, he actually came out and said " why wont you let me see you in the dark" it was our 1st morning together, he wanted to get intimate again..i freaked out and wouldnt let him uncover me.. he didnt know what was going on , i said im embarrassed about something, and with out thinking he said"what the 2 birthmarks on your humm humm"? he said dont worry i already seen them so stop it. i blushed but it was nice hes ok with it.. well that's what he says.. so guys would you be turned off?? ps i looked in to laser to removed them i just dint have the money for it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys ! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): "so guys would you be turned off"
Not at all.
Particularly not if you were turned on.
Your first boyfriend was a total asshole...sounds like the current guy is not. I vote you go with the current guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): trust me he was a boy not a man!! To a man we don't care and moles beauty marks no problem don't worry yourself!! We are just happy to be there? in those private parts!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2011):
It's sad that your first boyfriend made fun of you. It just shows how immature (some) teenage boys really are. He has no idea about women at all.
Honestly, nearly all men are NOT bothered by a bit of hair. We are even less bothered by perceived birth marks/moles. Your boyfriend noticed, and until you said something wasn't bothered at all.
More than anything, you just need to relax as much as you can. I'd suggest a bit of counselling instead of laser treatment. It would be more useful to you. And listen to that boyfriend of yours. All those things you say are problems, he doesn't mind. It didn't stop him wanting to have sex with you even more!
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