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writes:I am 16 years old and i am in love. No doubt about it, no1 can say im not coz i am. He loves me too, He is the sweetest guy ever to me, does aot for me, he tries to boost my confidence, and its really workin he has such a positive effect on me, BUT theres a catch he lives like 300 miles away, we want to be together so badly but its so hard, what can i do? Thanks xx
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (11 April 2009):
 I'm really sorry for you both. LDR's are such hard work (read all about my experience on my profile) (remember, it's just ONE example).
Given you're ages, the only time you will realistically get the chance to be together is during school holidays. They come only every several weeks, and it will cost quite a bit of money in order to travel to each other. I believe LDR's can work, but it takes an awful lot of work in order to keep them going. You're both young, things change, and people change. It's inevitable.
All I can really do is wish you both luck. If love is strong enough and you have enough luck, your LDR could be wonderful, but it puts a lot of pressure on the pair of you. Unfortunately, an LDR is all you can have, unless there comes a time where one of you can move closer to each other.
Please message me if you like, because I think there's a lot I can tell you about this subject. I offer my support to you both while you try and maintain a healthy long distance relationship.
Best of luck
-Andy
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Unless either of you is in a position to move, you will just have to stick it out with a LDR and hope for the best!
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reader, ask.m  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 hi this is a tough one & I sympatise!
you could try moving closer ..him to you Or you to him.
failing this they do say absence makes the heart grow fonder! why not make the weekends more special!!!
M
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