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Do you think my wife is having an affair?

Q.   I have caught my wife having text sex in the past, she is now secretly in contact with her ex, texting a lot whilst masturbating. I also discovered she has bought condoms, do you think she is having an affair? And what should I do?...

A.   23 April 2009: Unfortuately the signs dont look good. From what you've said it sounds as though she is having an affair ..or certainly considering one. If these things are left to linger the doubts,uncertainty, and hurt usually get worse. I think you should... (read in full...)

Birthday question for the ladies.

Q.   I am a married man and my birthday is coming up soon. The thing is, the gift I would like to recieve is a little out of the ordinary. I would like to ask my wife to give me the gift of letting me watch her get a massage from another woman. I'm ...

A.   23 April 2009: Dear Introvert personally I dont see anything wrong with your Birthday Idea. However my concern is how awkward you feel aproaching your wife regarding the same! you've mentioned sexual mismatching between you both.. this cannot be easy to live... (read in full...)

Should I tell him what I like? Or will that make me weird and slutty?

Q.   Ok so this is kind of a weird question, but here goes. I'm about to have sex with my guy for the first time. I'm a virgin, but I've masturbated before, and I know exactly how to make myself have an orgasm. I want my first time to be pleasurable, ...

A.   11 April 2009: Congratulations! your about to have sex for the first time with a guy you've been going steady with. personally I think you should do at least 2 things! 1. you SHOULD gently tell him what you like 2. you should ALSO slowly show him this... (read in full...)

I broke things off but I'd like to see her again now

Q.   About three months ago I ended things with a girl I was involved with. It wasn't a relationship and we were just getting to know each other. Unfortunately, I had a lot of pressure on me from school so I didn't get to know her as well as I would ...

A.   11 April 2009: I guess the best thing is you've started already by becoming friends again. Now that your stress & studies are over why dont you push the boat out a bit? and start by treating her the way you think she deserves. I'm sure she'll realise s... (read in full...)

Can love happen quickly?

Q.   So im just asking if i'm crazy. But i thinki found the perfect guy!!! he's silly, goofy, great with kids, has absolute loads of patience and when i'm around him i smile because i fancy him so. :) even my mother notices a different look in my eyes ...

A.   11 April 2009: hi Liz I think your boyfriend is wrong! to call you crazy & stupid because its a big FAT FACT! that you ARE in Love you've just come on here and told us so ..& I for one believe you. And anyway rumour has it ..It only takes 60 seconds to ... (read in full...)

Hormones hijacking my life

Q.   please help me! i feel like my hormones are hyjacking my life! to start off, i'm a late bloomer. i had friends who wanted it in 5th grade, but i had my first sexual urges only a few monthes ago (i'm 17). they're very distracting! i was playing ...

A.   11 April 2009: Dear Kitty Now that your urges have started I doubt very much they will stop .. best dive right in & get down to it. why not give into your urges & ask one of those cute guy's out from the gym? have fun! & dont forget to tell us how you got o... (read in full...)

In love..but he's 300 miles away!

Q.   I am 16 years old and i am in love. No doubt about it, no1 can say im not coz i am. He loves me too, He is the sweetest guy ever to me, does aot for me, he tries to boost my confidence, and its really workin he has such a positive effect on me, BUT ...

A.   11 April 2009: hi this is a tough one & I sympatise! you could try moving closer ..him to you Or you to him. failing this they do say absence makes the heart grow fonder! why not make the weekends more special!!! M... (read in full...)

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