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In love with my friend but she wants me to leave her alone. She's my best friend and I miss her ....

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Question - (2 December 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm back.

I'm female and been in love with my best friend also female. This summer she been in and out of mental hospital for bipolar disorder. We recently been back friends. I want us to be more than friends but she only want to be just friends.

I'm still in love and its hard now, she say i dont respect her decision and don't want to text or call me anymore and to leave her alone and I have.

Should I let her go or just give her time bc we are best friends? I miss her so much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012):

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but we already been in a sexual relationship for two months and stayed together neither one of us have been with a women we just been hurt so much and decided to do something new

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2012):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntHello,

Is this you? It helps to have more information, which is why I ask ...

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-bipolar-and-said-she-cant-be.html

I think that she has to focus on getting well. You don't mean to, but you may be giving her extra stress by not leaving her alone.

It's been several months, so time for you to step away from this woman and move on your life.

Good luck.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntLeave her alone, find another friend.

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A male reader, John douglas Canada +, writes (2 December 2012):

May be she is not lesbian. No offence.

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