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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupids!!! Pls help me.. im getting afraid if my LDR bf will go for dating on holloween day. Hes in australia and im in singapore.. we love each other so much and he never cheat on me before through our relationship for a year.. he came to me in last Jan and i visited to him last July as we planned to spend our quality time together.. im going to move in with him and i am applying student visa for australia now.. and planned to move in by January...last nite he admitted that he flirted a girl online there..and they arranged to meet up on saturday nite..he said she started to contact him and said she is so lonely bla bla and she broke up with her bf just 2-3 days ago only.. ps: and im so surprised she is finding another one now!!!! and he said she is kinda wide open to him and its so easy.. so he fall for it a while but he said he made up his mind not to go there.. coz if i know he did this, he knows i would give up our plan to move in..he promised he gonna divert this girl's attention to his friend.. and he is planning to go there a while on saturday.. intro his fri to the girl and said he will leave and come back to me.. coz i told him to stay at home all nite and im gonna talk to him all nite..but im still worried.. .he asked me that i should give him *credit* coz he can sacrifice that flirt happiness because of me and he promised hes not doing it...again ( but i think i dont believe )now i dont know if i should mad at him or.. thank him for not hanging out with that girl... im getting crazy .. i cant lose him anyways.. please help me what to do to keep him with me til sunday morning!!!(ps: i didnt show my anger to him last nite and i acted cool and understanding..i think its the best for now to control him)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Ok well at least he was honest to you about this girl that shows a lot because he didnt need to tell you about this so he did so at least you can value his honestly to you. however its not fair him out flirting with another girl so of course you are going to be worried but am afraid there is not a lot you can do hear, you just have to trust him and hope that he wont cheat on you, am afraid you cant tell him not to go out as this is controlling but you should ask him to ring you as soon as he gets home on saturday and see how he responds to this.
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