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female
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writes:dear cupid, ive been in a long distance realationship for 9 months with a guy and he was once married and has three children, i have one we live two hours apart.we see each other every other weekend,ive met his parents and kids and exwife who seems to be ok with us dating,but i feel that he isnt putting as much into the realationship anymore like he was in the begining it sems as if i dont text him in the morning he wont text till noon.and sometimes he'd call me first but now ive been doing the calling and i always go to see him.when we are together we are as happy as can be but apart i comtemplate our relationship.but he says he loves me everyday we talk to eachother,he says he'd never get married again and i never been so that is an issue to me,and his ex and the kids go over and visit him all the time and her sisters we're in town and he had a bbq for them and the kids i feel like even though they are divorced he still acts like they are a family and that bothers me,even though he says and she says they won't get back together should i be worried that they are spending too much time together,even though he says he is trying to make his kids life as normal as possiable.should i trust him? or move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): its not so much as moving on but...Moving forward. you have one child and never been married. he feels like hes been there done that...with three kids an ex wife AND long distance. just be smart and think of whats going on in the big picture. hes thinking "why buy the cow when the milk is free" your first obligation is to care for ur child and then to be involved with someone who wants to get married or at least has the same goals in mind as u. he is tired and just wants someone to comfort him. hes not serious.
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