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I'm still in love and missing her terribly, please help.

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Question - (29 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, *hedetailz writes:

I'm a married man in a love affair with a married woman. It seems that her husband has an idea of my exitence. Because of this she says she cannot seem me anymore the way we used to!!!

But having said that we talk everyday and she tells me how much she loves me and misses me! I miss her and love her very much as well.

The question I have... is there a chance that she will come back to me and we can continue our relationship together?

thedetailz

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008):

One question...

what would you do if you found out that your wife was having an affair? for all the attention that you are giving your mistress, you are taking away from your wife; leaving your wife with a void. SO...your wife must now fulfill that empty void and how does she do it. she has an affair of her own for entertainment purposes. ...She's bored!!!

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A female reader, [email address blocked] United States +, writes (29 October 2008):

If you love her as much as you say you do,

U may have to let go. She is feeling guilty when

she is laying in bed at night next to her husband.

And you should feel guilty as well.

I know this is very cliche but if it's meant to be

You two will be together.

Otherwise, quit your two-timeing and be happy with the wife that God gave you..

And what if her husband were to give your wife a call and let her know what your up to..?

That would'nt be good..

I dont know If you have a family with childeren or not.. but coming from a family with this same history..

It's nothing but Drama!

But If you really do Love her..

U will fight for her, Sounds lame I know.

But it's true!

Either Stop and work on your own marriage,

Or you can Man-Up and step to the plate and

make some sort of purposal to this woman, while breaking

your wifes heart.

I dont know how ppl live they're lifes the way you and this woman have, not judging you.. Just saying I can't imagine the guilt that rests upon your shoulder at night.. U gotta make a call buddy.. It's one or the other, Can't have em both..

Good Luck, That's a tough one!

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