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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey im having trouble..!cuz i realli like this guy who is 16 and im only 14 but i have been snoging him for a bit now..! he's really nice but we're not goin out together.! nd already he told me he loves me and i always say it back cause i do . and a few nights when hes been drunk he askd me to say in house and we could have sex and i said no im too young and he kept askin me but i told him maybe if im older and he said ok let me know when you want to.! but then a few days ago his mate told me he tells that to every1 and he has all of the girls and who will he pick.. was so pissed of with him but i really like him and i dont know what to say to him to still make sure it doesn ruin the realitionship ( were not goin out )but i dont know if he really does like me or he is just sayin that stuff to the other girls to make them feel good he always tells me im sexy im really confused plz help me decide what i should say to him witout sound desperate or like a b**ch[Moderator's note: Please do avoid writing in text speak next time!]
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reader, Ometeotl  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 Sounds like this silver tongue is nothing more than a snake in the grass. Men and women at your age are going through the wonderful changes of becoming and adult, physically speaking. Mentally we are just thinking about sex, we aren't even wanting to reproduce, just sex. It is good that you want to wait. Waiting is the only way to prevent stds and pregnancy. Of course you don't want to be a virgin for life as sex is an intimate and a personal activity you should do when it has a meaning for the most part. No point in throwing away something that should be special for someone who is just trying to get sex from someone. He may sound sincere but that is how they get sex easy. Stay strong but don't let him convince you until you feel comfortable in that he won't leave as soon as he gets sex. Of course I know your parents have said this and I can't help but say when it does happen please have safe sex. Something as special as sex can also be a killer. That is why waiting is good we mature mentally. I personally wouldn't trust that dude. It would be nice to think he is being nice but sounds like a wannabe player.
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