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female
age
30-35,
*rishii
writes:ok, i have a crush on my friend, we´ve only known eachother for 3 months, but since the day we met he´s been sending mixed signals...he always mentions something about others girls, if he made out with them, or he thinks they´re hot or whatever, once he said "why wouldn´t i hang out with you? that´s what friends do right?". Yesterday he came to a bar where i was celebrating my brithday with some old high school friends he didn´t know, he had a couple of drinks, he wasn´t drunk, but he was at the point of being uninhibited, some flirt with one of my friends.On the positive side, he has always treated me great, one of his friends has asked me a couple of times if i liked him, he has asked me to go to see his favorite soccer team with him, he once said that i looked really hot in one of my pictures, that my hair looked very nice, and yesterday in the bar he gave me a nice necklace he picked out, he said a couple of times that i was hot, that fortunately i didn´t had my cowboy hat on cause he couldn´t have resist to "take me to the bathroom", that i should be a fan of his soccer team cause all the girls that are fans of that team are hot, and then some friends said that i should kiss him to give his team luck, so he gave me a peck on the lips, but after that our friends said something (i really can´t remember what) and we made out twice but after that he said to me i know you´re drunk, and i said "no, i´m very conscious" and he said "ok, cause i always remember everything i do" (he wasn´t that drunk to not remember it the next day), and then he grab my behind and when we sat next to eachother occasionally he would put his arm around me, or put his hand on my leg, and stuff...so i´m confused, cause he flirts with other girls (i know it´s nothing serious with those girls)or if he just did that yesterday cause he had a bit of alcohol in his system, or if he actually likes me and it´s taking it slow cause he actually cares for me and the alcohol and the situation gave him the opportunity to make a move...
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 He likes you and every other pretty girl that he can charm his way into. This guy sounds like me in the bad old days! Be very careful, he is a player!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): he is a player... move on... read what you have written and see if there is any positive in there for him....move on...he just wants to play with many women....move on....he knows the buttons to press to get with you (and probably other women)....move on.
Hugs Star.x.
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