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writes:I was sick to my stomach and my bf of a couple months had spent the nite,he woke up next morning n said he had to go to check something at his house but would come rite back with medicine for me,well 4 hrs later he calls n said he had to help his family with stuff for a the day but will drop off medicine,i told him dont worry bout it n I would go get advil myself n take care of his stuff,i guess I got snippy a lil bc pms...he got mad n did not call me all day n only text me at 1030 pm to say he didnt like how I acted today n I wasnt nice n hope I feel better,i already apologized for bein short yesterday but maybe he didnt wana spend holiday with me bc I was sick,i told him I just wanted him here with me bc he works out of town all week n wanted time together,he hasnt called since this happened n im wondering if he just is playing me for a fool or had other plans n didnt wana be here with me sick,im dissapointed about him not caring to call,and whats sad is we,only see eachother on weekends n he blew me off all sat. N sunday n didnt call..should I just move on?
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 I think your relationship is too new for sick bay. Most men are not good at stuff like that but maybe with a woman they've been with for a few years will yield a little sympathy but not at the 2 month point. Plus men sometimes react the way they want to be treated when sick. Many guys just want you to go away and leave them alone so they do the same when your sick not knowing you want to be soothed and coddled. Before you dump him give therelationship more time and look for other signs that tell you if he's just an insesitive boar. Hope you feel better soon.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 You pushed each other away unknowingly. Was the L word exchanged yet? It's not a good sign that this happens so early on in the relationship. You don't feel like you can rely on him. But on his side he feels that he needs your permission to go help his family. He also doesn't want to feel responsible for your negative emotions. If you never talked about how serious the relationship is then maybe it is easier for you to move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 You both had a disagreement, he didn't like your attitude so he went in to a bit of a sulk and decided to enjoy himself at the weekend instead of looking after you. You say it is only been a couple of months so this is still a new relationship so I wouldn't expect to much to soon. Tell him how he has made you feel and how upset you where. If you feel the relationship is going no where then I guess you should end it but off course this is your decision to make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2012): if i was you i would just move on - these are serious warning signs for how he will behave in the future! if he doesnt care enough to man up and sort it out with you, you can honestly do much better i promise!
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