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writes:My Boyfriend and I Have been seeing each other for a couple of months. Im really scared he wants to have sex and because im only young, im scared that i feel like i do to, is it because of my age or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (29 April 2007):
 Hi Dear!
It could be because of your age, but for certain it is because you are not ready for sex yet!
Don't do it, if don't feel ready, don't feel save or just don't want to. You don't need a reason for not having sex, if you don't feel for it, wait!
Sex is not love and it is not a tool for anything. If he really loves you, he will wait for you even if that will take years! If he is not ready to wait for you, he doesn't really loves you. If he puts you under pressure, leave him. You are not his girlfriend for he can just use you for what he wants. But you deserve his respect. And respect meens that he accepts that you are not ready for sex yet!
Don't be sacred to tell him that you don't want to! And don't be sacred to leave him if he doesn't accept this. It would be only for your good! But if you cave in, you will regret it one day. Is that worth for this?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (29 April 2007):
 Yes, it IS because of your age. You are NOT ready to have sex with anyone right now or you would never have posted this question. You're "scared!" Continue seeing him but don't even think about having sex with him, your body is still growing and developing and if you DO have sex then your boyfriend could be arrested and charged for having sex with an underage girl.
WAIT until you are at least 16 and it's not against the law and always use protection whenever you do.
Eve
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 ok you sound real confused and stressed frist things frist, you got to calm down take a breath and look at the situation and be ready if it comes up. but for now im not real sure what to say because i dont understand your question all that well but if he does want to have sex with you and im going to save you the too young for you age to have sex talk and say just your head not your heart it can fool you and you really dont need a child and or an std but i think if he does tell him to wait and if he doesnt than that answered your question now didnt it? but other than that with such small detail thats the best advise i can give.good luck xoxo
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