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I'm really nervous about kissing...I have no idea how to do it!!

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Question - (20 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have never kissed anyone and neither has my boyfriend. He used to be very shy and quiet like me, but suddenly is teasing me about kissing all the time.

I am really nervous. I have no idea how to do this, and now I feel worried sitting close to him in case he goes for it and I mess up.

Help?

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A female reader, Purple Pillow Power Iceland +, writes (20 July 2011):

Purple Pillow Power agony auntJust think: hey! Im kissing you! and do what you see in movies. Really its a natural thing once you get going.

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A male reader, MugenTj United States +, writes (20 July 2011):

MugenTj agony auntEasy. When you feel like kissing him, when you guys are together. There are lots of ways. Here is one: press your lips onto his, hard (but dont hurt him) then slowly pull back and look into his eyes for reaction. You hands should be on his shoulders at this point, because need to hold him still. If that went well, continue with more lips and tongue actions (like you've seen in movies). There is no way to mess this up.

Just take the initiative because if both of you are shy nothing will happen. If it appeared clumsy, just laugh about it and practice again. The trick is to be natural, dont think too much about it.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (20 July 2011):

MonksDaBomb agony auntThere honestly is nothing to it. Just don't think about it or it will become a flustered, embarrassing moment for you. It's hard to explain, but it's just something our bodies are accustomed to doing, so just don't worry about it and have fun :)

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