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Ipswich is where i live on my own. Had 5 boyfriends, 2 because i could, 1 because he wanted protection(im a black belt in karate) and the other 2 i loved but they cheated. Damn them. :] im cool about it now. im 21. i have no quilifications to help people but i think thats the best you can get because then you know that they mean it from the heart not what they read in a book. At the moment im a single pringle!

What did their boys joke mean?

Q.   I was talking with some friends (some girls some boys) and I mention how I had many bruises from sports. Boys just laughed and asked where on my body. I told on my legs and they say they were thinking elsewhere. I ask what they ment and they say it ...

A.   8 December 2011: yeah they think you got down 'n' dirty! ewwwww.... tell them there mind is tinted dirty.....*shiver*... (read in full...)

Painful sex. Advice?

Q.   Ok so I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have been dating over a year. We have sex often, but lately it feels rough going in. I thought I was lubricated enough without any lubricant or anything but it feels like something is scratching me and when he p...

A.   7 December 2011: i think everyones on the same lines here. you probably just over done something like when you lift up one to my boxes and you do your back in. depending on how much sex you have just give it time but if it still hurts after a few weeks tell the ... (read in full...)

I'm inexperienced--should I wear a condom during anal sex?

Q.   hello everyone. I have a question to ask. me and my GF are a very sexual couple and she has asked me to do something a few times. I come here to ask all of you. I'm not sure how to do it because well before he I was a virgin so i need some help.She ...

A.   7 December 2011: yes wear a condom. think, all kinds of nastys are up there. you dont wanna infect something that a man prizes. also if you want both, go for vaginaral sex first then swich to anal, otherways the nastys from her butt on you prize possetion with do ... (read in full...)

Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works?

Q.   Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works? I keep getting different answers from different sources. It's my understanding that it's supposed to delay or even prevent ovulation (if your body has not yet already ovulated...

A.   7 December 2011: the morning after pill actually makes you have a mini peiriod. if you have un-protected sex and you think oh damn! what if im preggers you take the morning after pill and it collects some blood from the linning of you womb (only if your pieriods ... (read in full...)

Love of my life tells me I don't love you anymore and left me for someone else

Q.   Hi There, Need some advise as I'm not sure really how to handle this or what to do. I was engaged to get married and last week my partner told me out of the blue she doesn't love me anymore has not done for a long time and has feeling for so...

A.   6 December 2011: some people find taking a hobby does the soul good. you never know, a rebound girl is out there not knowing yet but pationtly waiting. like the first person said, grow a mustache! my dad always said mustaches are manly even though i hated it. ... (read in full...)

How to tell if a person is gay

Q.   hi my friend is a lesbian and i am not sure whether i am but how do you tell if someone else is one?...

A.   6 December 2011: you can never tell but time will be the only one with this information. sorry i watched lord of the rings earlier... anyway at your age its natuarlly to 'like' the other side. its experementing. sometimes you find the the same sex just always looks ... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   6 December 2011: i know how scared you must feel now. my friend got pregnat with my ex (grrrr) but i helped her and eventually she got an abortion. think like this; shes your own mother who you have lived with for almost 15 years she was probably jokeing about the ... (read in full...)

Could my boyfriend have a personality problem?

Q.   I had a boyfriend and I'm wondering if he has some personality problems. He always changes up a story from what really happen when we argue he doesn't like to take faults when they are his he can't talk about his feelings he runs away from his ...

A.   21 July 2011: I think its the way hes been brought up. You say the parents are mean and stuff? That's probably it. If a mosquito has a kid, its kids going to be a mosquito. That probably doesn't make sense but it will. If a mean people have a kid and bring it up ... (read in full...)

How do I make him get the hint he's starting to creep me out

Q.   Hi guys! I'm in need of some advice. Sorry if this is a repeat, I accidentally posted before I finished typing it the first time! 2 months ago I met a guy through some friends. Ran into him again at a mutual friend's b-day party and we ended up ...

A.   20 July 2011: Tell him. The best thing you can do is tell him you have a boyfriend and had no intention on dumping him anytime soon. Its okey to be freaked by that. That happend to me once. I was so creeped I moved forms at school but he keeped talking to me on ... (read in full...)

I'm really nervous about kissing...I have no idea how to do it!!

Q.   I have never kissed anyone and neither has my boyfriend. He used to be very shy and quiet like me, but suddenly is teasing me about kissing all the time. I am really nervous. I have no idea how to do this, and now I feel worried sitting close to...

A.   20 July 2011: Just think: hey! Im kissing you! and do what you see in movies. Really its a natural thing once you get going.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said porn stars are hotter than me!

Q.   My boyfriend and porn. Ever since my boyfriend got a new job we've had less time for sex. Whenever we see each other we have a lot of sex. I'm not a prude, so with me anything goes (except threesomes). I let him do whatever he wants. I sometimes ...

A.   18 July 2011: Well 1) there made to be hot,sex and revealing. 2) Theres probaly photo-shopping going on anyway so its a fake. Tell him hes being an ungrateful b*****d and that if he doesnt like he can go chase after the fantastic cartoon porn-star. :]... (read in full...)

What do most people do when they have a crush?

Q.   Really general question do most of you when you have a crush, liking of someone, Tell them without asking them out? Directly ask them out? Get a friend to tell them without asking them out? Tell them when you are over them? Never tell them? Ge...

A.   18 July 2011: Lots of people have asked me out through there friends. Thats not cool. Some people find it bad to have there friends to tell them stuff so 3 and 6 are OUT. Never tell them would mean you suffer the crushes pain so no. You may never get over ... (read in full...)

I need to tell my parents that I'm pregnant, but I don't know how!

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we started having sex 2 yrs ago. im 16 and now im pregnant. ive told my partner he's going to do all he can my only problem is how do i tell my parents?...

A.   18 July 2011: There is truly no easy way to tell your parents. What you should do is sit down with them and your boyfriend and say that its really important. I suppose you are a bit young for a baby with school so they may not take it well. Just make shore you ... (read in full...)

If she doesn’t like boys, why is she still with him? Should I wait for him?

Q.   Okay, I’m a gay guy stuck in a sticky situation, no pun intended. I’ve been hanging out with one of my friends from high school recently, and she told me how she doesn’t have feelings for guys anymore, and she introduced me to her boyfriend, whom is ...

A.   18 July 2011: I think he may not WANT to be gay and fights it but its still there and he likes you. That may be why he pulled away from your kiss because he doesnt want to be gay. (Sorry I the word gay offendes you or something.) He may want it to really work ... (read in full...)

She dumped me...but why does she keep coming back into my life?

Q.   Hi everyone; Well hope someone can help me truely. I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years and 2,5 years of it we were living together. I met her when she was 17 and i was 21 now she is 22 and im 26. In the 5 years she has dumped me 7-...

A.   18 July 2011: Well I think she doesn't want to be alone. She probably see's herself alone for life and needs someone beside her. When she leaves you I think its because she my picture the same routine with you over and over so she wants a bit of freedom. Its just ... (read in full...)

Does he like me back or am I reading too much into these signs?

Q.   Dear Cupid, There's one guy I like but I don't know if he likes me back. I've known him for nearly a year now, we've been good friends, but I didn't really see him often because he lives on the other side of London and I was busy with college a...

A.   18 July 2011: WELL THEN! I think he likes you, but you mentioned he's shy so he may want YOU to make the first move(some guys are like that.) Anyway I think you should start to get more and more closer to him then ask him out if thats what you want to do. If not ... (read in full...)

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