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I'm obsessed with looking up skirts! Yes i know, sounds strange, whats going on???

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Question - (29 August 2007) 14 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

not sure if you could help me.I supose its an addiction.I am obsessed with womens knickers and constantly try to look up womens skirts,even schoolgirls.I know its wrong but i love to see the secrets.one day i will be caught and arrested,am i a pervert?

when i saw your name my first thought was ' i wonder what colour panties she is wearing ' now that has to wrong,yes??

I am harmless but sisk i think,can you advise/help ?

thanks for reading this

andy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009):

i always liked looking up skirts .when i was 13 the girls showed boys their knickers .i dont think its a problem . look but DONT TOUCH and you will be ok

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A female reader, maggie10 United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2009):

I think you are perfectly normal. As young girls at school we used to tease the boys. We would sit showing too much leg and, our knickers. In the school yard we did handstands and our skirts went all the way up then there was the procedure of pulling them down again which was exaggerated and provocative. Most of the girls wore navy blue knickers but mine were always white. We girls used to pull up eachothers skirts too when boys were watching. I still flash even today when the opportunity arises. So you are normal, you dont need to see a shrink

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

This is my favorite upskirt story and it happened today. If you are like me you will like it.

In chemistry class today before the second bell rang one of my friends asked me some stupid question. I turned towards him to answer and next to me is this hot girl with nice legs and a hot ass. She is sitting so I can see her pink thong up her skirt. I look up at her face and she is looking at me smiling. I then stared up her skirt for 2 minutes until the bell rang. What a great day.

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A male reader, alexaj United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2008):

if ur the same age or younger u can look but if there younger get help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

i would love to look up girls skirts, especially if they're wearing no knickers! But it is wrong, so instead i have joined soft-porn sites. I have many pics of girls in public places flashing their panties or pussies! And let's face it, we all like a bit of pussy - and you won't see much in real life!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

First let me say I can relate to you my freind. And I hope my long answer helps you. I will take a guess that you upskirt to escape things like I have.

I am a male in your age catagory who has the same fetish.

I have begun to read self help books to get me out of this. Also I am looking into Phyciatric help from the VA clinic or a church if I cannot get out of this myself. I recomend you do the same.

It started with me in Grade School. My family was having a tough time which did not help me socailly. I think I started it as an escape. When I left high school I think I kept the fetish as an escape. When my life would fall on hard times is when I started doing it more.

I started going to strip clubs in my early 20s. I foun an easy way to satisfy my fetish and not get in trouble. Simply explain to strippers my "Unskirt Fetish" for a few bucks most of them would obligs me. I could even go into back rooms and play upskirt games with them.

When I joined the military I thought I had left this fetish behind me and could live a normal life. I was stationed on an Aircraft Carrier under repair in NEwPort News. The tremendous stress of being in the shipyard made me start up my fetish again. VA has no strip clubs and being caught on the street doing this may have gotten me discharged out of the service.

I began to go to Go Go bars to satisfy my fetish. I even made trips up to New York, New Jersey, and Baltimore to go to real strip clubs I went for other things as well but upskirting was on my mind. Thrugh strip clubs I had a few relationships with some weman I would upskirt.

Through these self help books and phycological help from a church or VA office I am hoping to break my strong fetish for this as well.

I would recomend getting help for this in some way. Talk to somewon you trust or get a religeous advisor to help you. If you want to keep this fetish then I recomend the stripclub thing. Most strippers don't mind and you are violating no one becouse you have their permission to look.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008):

iv seen a few men lookin up my skirt and understand. i even liked the attention but most women will be angry. if the wind blows someones skirt up then enjoy the moment or if a girlfriend will enjoy showing off to you but stop trying to look at women you dont know.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

I talk to my girlfriend about this male fetish, and she understands. When we go to parties, she loves to wear sort skirts and even stockings sometimes. I also buy her knickers and she loves to please me by letting me peak up her skirt before we go out. Have you tried talking to your ladies? Most of them seem to love showing off like this. It is quite harmless.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007):

Hi Andy. First of all just about all men love looking up girls skirts and just about all men do it. It's just like masturbation however, in that everyone denies they do it and what's worse, they adopt a hypocritically moral attitude towards everyone else. Provided it's passive, in that you simply take the opportunities presented to you then it's normal and it's fine. If you feel it's likely to become active, for instance if you stalk or use a camera then I would suggest help is needed before you get into real trouble. Spanna has it right when she implies - watch yourself closely. Best of luck, Mike.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (10 September 2007):

rcn agony auntYou need to find healthy ways to satisfy your desires. Anything taken to extreme is an addiction. I would seek professional help to find out what is causing this obsession.

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A male reader, Richard_EMids United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2007):

Richard_EMids agony auntHi Andy - If you say you're harmless - then it's OK just to look and fairly normal (not schoolgirls). Use responsible ADULT websites to satisfy your interest. Don't go any further than that.

However, on the one hand you say you are harmless - but then say you are worried about getting caught and arrested!!!!! Why do you think you will be arrested???

Schoolgirls and cameras will get you into trouble - which will affect you for the rest of your life. Imagine what happens to someone if they are in the newspapers for this type of offence, what happens to their families and relatives, how people react. Imagine what happens to someone who goes to prison for this type offence. Think what life on the sex offenders register will mean to you. If this might apply to you - go to your doctor and discuss. You'll be referred to a specialist who'll give you help and guidance and afterwards you will still be able to satisfy your interests in knickers and skirts without breaking the law.

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A male reader, daglish Uganda +, writes (30 August 2007):

daglish agony auntToo much of anything is bad. I nitially it was okay for u to be curious coz all of us guyz want to know waht exacly every woman,s fruit looks like but if u cant control your curiosity then seek some concelling

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (29 August 2007):

duce00 agony auntYup you really should get some professional help on this one. It will save you alot of greif both legal and otherwise. Gosh, I hate to think of what I would do if I saw some man looking up MY daughters skirt. Not a pretty site at all my friend. Seek counseling very soon.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2007):

love-him agony auntHi, schoolgirl skirts, yes, you will be branded as a perve and a poedo.. schoolgirls, as in what.. primary school, high school..? if you continue to do it then yea u will get caught and it will be bad.. i think it is an addiction as many people are like this.. you need to talk to someone, a psychiatrist something like that.. just to get you back on the right tracks again.. but please get help.. this isnt something that i would regard as normal..

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