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I'm no longer the popular girl and I don't like it!

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Question - (7 January 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello.

I've had this big problem with some friends.

I have always been that popular person and I'm happy with that. But recently this girl started getting popular and I got really jealous cause most of my friends would rather hang out with her.. EVEN MY BF!

I'm not an attention whore. I've always helped my friends when they needed it.. I just feel jealous about they give her all the attention and I'm sorta kicked out now.

What should I do? :/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012):

im going to be honest with you here you should try to not care or try to be friends with her but if thats not you then just be EXTRA outgoing and EXTRA nice to everything and make them remember why the liked you more than this girl also every girl has a flaw... just something to consider

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (7 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntWhy can't you try and be friends with her too?

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A female reader, TashaLoves117 United States +, writes (7 January 2012):

Guys like that sometimes are just attracted to girls who are most popular at the moment...

I hope everything works out for you though because jealousy is like a terrible feeling that can make you come off really ugly.

How about you try and make friends with this girl who is stealing your thunder...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012):

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Thanks for replying, Annalisa.

I've tried talking with him loads of times. He'd rather go out with his friends and this girl than going out with me.

I really consider breaking up with him since I feel like he's trying to get with her.

When we talk about how I feel jealous because he barely wants to hang out with me, he gets really mad and accuses me of being obsessed and all kind of stuff. Always ends up in an argument.

Earlier today we argued for almost 2 hours before he left my house. I really can't sleep due to him being like this..

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