A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So i have this issue with my boyfriends ex girlfriend. i am very jealous of her and im not sure if it's because he lied to me about her or because she seems so much better then me. He said he regrets dating her but it just seems like he doesnt. she was still texting him and he said he told her that he didnt want to talk to her cause he was takin. but i talked to her and she said thats not true and they were texting the whole time we dated and she didnt find out about me until i added her on facebook to talk. he told me all these lies about her like he tried to pretend nothing happened between them. and then i see how many more friends she has then me and she is so happy and out going and i am really boring and only have a few friends. he says she is psycho and thats why he doesnt talk to her anymore. but she just seems so cool and she was honest about everything i asked her. and i asked her the same stuff i asked my bf and the answers were totally opposite until i told him she told me everything. then he confessed. and i just dont kno what to do and i am very jealous of her. i need help
View related questions:
ex girlfriend, facebook, his ex, jealous, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): Your issue should be with your boyfriend not his ex girlfriend. She sounds ok. Hes been lying to you and thats a really bad sign. If you feel boring ect now, hes not going to make you feel better about yourself, only worse. Stay friendly with his ex as she seems nice. But move on from him, he wont be any good for you x
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 March 2010):
Well at first, I wondered if she had made it up. Right up to the point where you said he confessed. He didn't just lie a little bit. He lied a lot and made her out to seem bad.
First of all, dump him. He's a liar, and you can't trust him at all. Why settle for second best.
Secondly, you're not boring and you have no reason to be jealous of her. She's no better than you. I only have about seven or eight really good friends, including my own brother ans sister. I know people who have fifty friends. So what? I have enough friends. Don't be jealous of her. That's going to achieve nothing. If you want to meet more friends, meet more people. Start a new hobby or something like that. And get rid of this guy. He's lied badly.
...............................
|
