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writes: There's this lad who I've liked for over 2 years. He liked me for one of them, but we never went out we just had a few kisses in private. He's a player and all my friends have told me to get over him, but I really feel strongly for him. I might even love the loser.I always get jealous when I hear about all the girls he has been with over the holidays or whatever, knowing full well he spent none of it with me; although he claims he still likes me and I believe him because teh way he acts on his own is genuine. So today, I don't know what came over me but I told him I'd had oral sex with one of my male mates to get him healous for a change. He flew off the handle calling me a slag and now I feel really bad. I can't tell him it was a lie because that will only make things worse, I'm sure.I really need help. Any help whatsoever. Whether it's how to get over him, how to make up with him, anything, I just need to have him as a mate because despite playing women when he's on his own he's lovely.Any help appreciated, thanks, Kate.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Hi there,
now you know what type of guy he is don't you. Players are controlling arseholes. They will shag anything that moves but as soon as one of their many conquests ( that's you ) start to show an interest in someone else they can't handle it.
Thank your lucky stars and delete his number from your phone and look out for this type in the future. What are you doing with him anyway, you are only setting yourself up for a big fall, you are only one amongst many ( how does it make you feel knowing that he sleeps with all these other girls when he is bored with you )
These types never change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): does he engage in oral regularly with other girls?if so then i think what is going on is that he likes you, therefore he doesnt mess around with you like he does with other girls, only kisses youand yes, he probably did get jelous, or expected better from youdont make the same mistake of lieing again x
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reader, hello1  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 He's calling you a slag?? double standards to the extreme there!
He sounds jealous but why does that matter? he's a player and if he really liked you, he would have made a move by now. I think you should stop seeing him, he was way out of order with the way he reacted, you need too get over the way you feel so time spent apart will be for the best.
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