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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so like two months ago I went on my senior trip. There were a lot of other schools there so I had a lot of chances to meet new people. One of my friends, V, made friends with a boy, A. All of my other friends went head over heels over him. I, on the other hand, wasn't crazy over him but I thought he was cute. A typical mini crush, you can call it. But three of my friends, M, S, and G, worked their ass off to get his attention. They wore short skirt, revealing shirts, and bunch of make up to the dance that the place prepared for the people that were there. I didn't even try to get his attention, I just stayed in my room with my other friends (AM and J) who didn't care too and watched movies instead. After the trip, my friend V asked A if he was to pick one of the girls he met at the senior trip that he liked who it would be. He said my name. He said I was cute and that he would go for me. (along with the joke that he is gay)The problem here is that I only talked to him 4 times in the span of 3 days. 1. I just said I when V introduced him to us. 2. He walked into my room with the rest while I was watching a movie and I offered him popcorn.3. I told him my name and spelled it out for him so he doesn't get confused. 4. I said bye to him. Yeah that was it and he thought I was cute. So my friend, G, became furious with me. He told her that he wasn't gay but didn't deny anything about thinking I was cute. She also told me that she rather have him gay than him and I going out. Then as a joke I told her I was going to text him because I had his number from someone else. G said she was fine with it. So I was like okay then so I did. While I was at it I asked him if what he said was true. He said it was and he began to "flirt" with me. Saying that I looked nice in just sweat shorts and tank (because that's how I looked when he walked into the room), or that I had a nice smile and that he liked the fact I was specific and honest. We just became nice friends. I mean as a girl that I am, I was very giggly and happy when he told me these things. It's normal... G told me not to text him in front of her because she feels sick when I do and that it's rubbing it in her face that we are talking. I mean she does talk to him as well. As we talked, the more I became fond of him. And my mini crush got a bit bigger and I sort of fell for him. He told me himself that he can be a flirt sometimes and that he doesn't do it to anyone especially at the moment. He then asked me out to lunch. Like a small hang out. I said no at first because I didn't feel comfortable meeting him alone without anyone including G. But AM and J (my other friends) said that I should meet up with him because I should date him. So as a solution, I suggested that I have AM and J come with me. Everyone agreed and we had a nice lunch and we hung out and all that. G found out about the whole thing and she got mad that I didn't tell her I met him and that she was not invited. Now she is extremely pissed at me. AM, J, and V thinks that I should just ignore her and go out with him but I don't know. I mean I value friendship a lot but I really like him. Please help me. I have no idea what to do here.
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