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anonymous
writes:I'm in a long distance relationship, been a year now. He is seperated but not divorced yet and states he has no plans in the near future to get one as he will have to pay full child supports. I have a career (a really good one). He says he will never move and doesn't ever want another child. To be with him I would have to move, leave my job, my family and accept that I will never have a child of my own. Also when he goes home he ingnores me and doesn't call, I should get out of this I think....any advise?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the responses. He just called me again today because...its Sunday and he will be in my city monday or tuesday, i feel now that he's just using me when he has nothing better to do as I said before, he ignores me when he's home with his friends on the weekend. He has 3 kis from 2 different women, he only see's one of them. Just told me today that he has been tied down for 15 years and can't see getting married....ever. All he seems to want to do is get drunk and play x-box. We just decided to end it but I gaurntee he will pop back into my life. if not this week then it will be the second he finds out i'm dating someone else, which is what just happened 2 months ago and now its over again
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Hi
Depends what you want in the grand scheme of things.
Leaving someone you love because you know the futures not bright is hard work! But you do get over it, time is really a great healer and in the future you wont even look back! Ive been there and bought that t-shirt.
I would say, trust your instincts!
Most of all if you decide to get out, be strong!
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): He doenst want the same things you do. i would consider what you're willing to give up for him.
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