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writes:so i want to know if i'm overreacting or is my boyfriend up to something? so yesterday me and my boyfriend were good we were talking and texting than he said he will talk 2 me later cause he was going 2 eat so i waited a hour and a half passed so i text him saying hey baby in less than 2mins he goes what u doing i text him back and he didn't text back he got bugged cause i called his house but he didnt answer cause he was in the restroom suppoisbly but he replyed once i called than lagged it anthor hour so i said lets talk on the phone since he was lagging it he goes im 2 tired even after that he didnt text quickly still took his time what i also what 2 know is he didnt start 2 text me till 4hours so if i wouldnt have texted him when was he gonna text me or was he even gonna text me last night? i trust him 90 percent the othet 10 i doubt him cause we are long distance so im insecure sometimes he never told me what he did that he didnt text back he just said where did i think he was @ wht im i triping if he was home but why didnt he want 2 text we were laughing and having a good convo before he went 2 eat so let me know your opinions thank you
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 hi
yes, you are insecure aren't you?? you need to ease up on texting him and wanting to talk. i know how tempting it is when you are really into someone you want to be in almost constant contact with them but it seems like he needs a lot less than you do and if you don't calm down he is gonna get sick of it.
try to relax. if you don't hear from him for a few hours its OK, it doesn't mean he is out with someone else, it doesn't mean he is never gonna text you again. try to be more patient and just wait for him to text you back or else you are definitely gonna lose him coz you seem to be too high maintanence
xx
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