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writes:im seventeen. my boyfriend has been having mood swings toward me , and he takes his anger for his family out on me, not only do i feel distant from him but i feel he is not the same person i fell in love with a year ago. we haven't had sex in two months. we don't talk like we use to and if we do we have nothing to say. I don't know what to do, or what it means.And the other day i resulted with cheating. was i completly wrong? do i tell him?? what do i do? it felt so good but i just don't want to hurt him. please help me??
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 It's time to break it off with this boy. It was over before you cheated and now it's definitely over because you've cheated on him.
Explain your reasons for breaking up with him : you don't feel the same, his mood swings have put a strain on your relationship and you no longer feel like you have anything in common.
However, you always have to tell him that this is partly your fault because you cheated on him - he deserves to know that, instead of you making it look like this break up was only his fault.
All the best!
xo
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 i think that when you cheated...you knew you were putting an end to a relationship that was already over. this is going nowhere, you said yourself you dont even talk anymore - where is the relationship?
you need to break up with him. tell him the truth too - say that you dont feel the same anymore and you made mistake by cheating also. you dont want to be with this guy, so why prolong it?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 July 2008):
This relationship is over. I think it was over in your mind before you cheated.
Tell him that you don't love him any more, tell him that you can't put up with his behaviour any more. Tell him the break up is your fault too though and that you cheated. You owe him that rather than just dumping him.
Be single for a while and then find your self someone better.
Good Luck!! xx
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