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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I had this crush on this guy since last year, but me and him kinda started talking this year during summer. His younger brother is friends with my sister. I really like this guy, but he started flirting with My Sister:/ and he told her that she look better than me . . after he said he wanted to be with me, but i'm to shy. I was really hurt when he said that. I don't know if i still wanna be with him or not. I feel like im doing something wrong or he dont like how i look. I already got low self essteem so that just made it worser:( I talked to my sister, and she told me she really dont like him cause he's albino. And if i was to date him she wouldnt want him. But i dont know what to do, i'm hurt by hat he said, but yet he's constanly in my thoughts..
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (3 September 2012):
Let it go. You’ve got that doubt in your head now that he doesn’t want to be with you and that wouldn’t go away if you started seeing him. If he did say your sister was better looking, he’s obviously a bit insensitive anyway. It sounds like any relationship would be plagued by insecurity. Focus your attention on dealing with your low self-esteem and increasing your self-confidence.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2012): Forget about him and do better. He sounds like the sort to make do with a girl just until someone else who takes his fancy comes along. And then he'll drop you like a hot plate.
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