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writes:My ex asked me back after he came back from holiday with a woman who he says he dated only once and ended the relationship on their second meeting. He also had her picture as his screen saver which was taken at her house in her kitchen and was still on his phone when he came straight from the airport over to me. I have been back with him for a month and cant get her picture out of my mind. Why would you take a picture of a woman at her home after a first date, then keep it on your phone when you finish, then! go on holiday as friends, so he tells me.. The reason he came back to me was because things did not go well. Every time I hear his phone go I think its her texting even though he says he would not contact someone who has been horrible to him.I think there is something not quite right and feel he has been lying to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2013): Thank you for the replies as it always good to hear an outside viewpoint, particularly one from a males perspective.
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reader, Amber12 +, writes (3 July 2013):
Amber12 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your replies. Its good to get an outsiders view point, particularly a males point of view. I did feel he got dumped by her. He did say to me the grass was not greener, just different.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (3 July 2013):
I doubt he's lying about being with her, it sounds like she dumped him and you were his second choice. Don't take that personal, it just means he saw the grass as being greener.
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reader, romany +, writes (2 July 2013):
 Oh Amber, none of this sounds good does it.
I'm one of these people who always tries to see both sides, but he don't have a leg to stand on.
Red flags everywhere for me, he may not be seeing this woman now, but he still lied like a cheap watch, and he went away on holiday and had the audacity to come back to you after trying it with her.... ooo no, cut your losses, run away fast.
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