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writes:Hey all :)Im and am still a virgin, im a bit a chubby but can easily lose this weight with a bit of excercise which I plan to do for next year(too busy with exams this year)an think im a decent looking guy, but my problem is that I have 0 girl experience..I mean I kissed a girl when I was 13 but have not been in a relationship or anything thing close in 4 YEARS!!This is mainly because of the people I hung around with, we all played sports all day and never really associated with girls. 2 years ago I fell out with them and now I have no friends...yes I live on the internet : /I have gone to a few party but all the girls there had boyfriends..and I feel a bit depressed by this, its not so much losing my virginity but I just need to connect with a female on a different level other than casual talk...I love music(im a bedroom DJ)and am wondering if things will be different in college, like meeting girls? remember I have no girl experience : /
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 It will be different if you go out and go to different social events. If you just stay in your dorm room, it'll be pretty much the same except for classes that you will have with females.
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reader, classicfun8 +, writes (6 March 2008):
It'll only be different if you make it different. My advice is remember that starting off as a freshmen in college everyone else is in your shoes. I mean everyone is trying to make new friends. So use that to your benefit. Don't be to shy but don't be creepy super friendly guy either. (I mean don't ask for the girl's number after only finding out her name 2 minutes ago) Don't be afraid to put yourself out there either. You won't always get the results you want but at the same time you'll never get any results if you just continue to hang out in your room. I'm a believer in the idea that there is someone out there for everyone. Use your interests to find the kind of person that would be great for you. For instances go to a cafe or something that has live music. You're bound to meet some fabulous girl there or at least some cool friends. And some women actually would prefer their mate to be a virgin so I wouldn't worry about that either. Sure it'll be awkward but everything is the first time you do it right? haha, no worries though I believe in you! Good luck!!!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Girl experience doesn't really matter, in my opinion, although you do need to be confident. College will certainly help, because of "exposure." You need to be around girls every chance you get. Take at least some classes that girls are taking. Go places where they go. Mix with them. Be funny, but also be very sure of yourself. Take pride in whatever you do, or whatever you are good at, and let it show. There's more to it, and you will learn, but one more thing: Always look a girl in her eyes when you speak with them. Look them nicely in the eyes when you approach them, even in passing, at least until they look away. Learn to "smile" with your eyes. Your day will come.
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